When life gives us lemons, we just have to make ourselves some sweet lemonade. Here you’ll find our musings, pearls of wisdom, and personal stories to guide you through life’s passages. Explore how to embrace your beauty with style, discover new adventures, navigate the nuances of relationships, pull back the curtain to deal with life changes, and resonate with the reflections of other women.
* Please consult a medical professional while persuing a breast reduction or plastic surgery A reader asked me to write a positive blog about breast reductions. She wants to have a breast reduction but she is afraid. Fear is a normal feeling for everyone who has any type of surgery; therefore it is important to […]
Are you back in the dating game after a divorce, breakup, or widowhood? If that is you, this information will be of help in finding the top qualities to look for in a partner, specifically if you are dating again after the age of 50. Let Go of the Attraction Factor 1. Let go of […]

Journaling is the key to a happy life. Now, why would I say that? For many, understanding what gets them out of bed each morning is tied to their motivation to journal and reflect. Because journaling opens up your emotions, makes you spill your thoughts and feelings onto a page. Journaling helps you process trauma, […]

My darling, after receiving a few emails asking me about how to have a positive life after 50+, I wanted to give you a glimpse into why I am the woman I am today. I want to tell my story because writing about my life with openness may inspire you to open windows into your […]
This article was written by the Enchanted Self herself, Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein. Let’s talk about the idea of your “Enchanted Self” and what it is. It is a very special part of each woman. You may not have given it a name, you may have dismissed it as trivial, perhaps unimportant in the scheme […]
