Why I wear a red string around my wrist

September 4, 2016 By
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I am very fortunate. I have an interesting circle of friends and acquaintances from all walks of life. Americans who are Asian, Hispanic and black, and people on almost every continent and dozens of countries that my husband and I know from work and travel. They are Christians, Hindus, Muslims and Jews; young, old and in-between; religiously observant and not.  Yet as diverse as they are, I have found that they all have one thing in common: They all seem to notice the simple red string around my wrist and ask me about it.

It’s rare to be able to say, “I have a personal FAQ”—but I do. And it’s “Why are you wearing a red string?

My response is as interesting and compelling to my friends and acquaintances as their wide-ranging histories and cultural practices are to me.  But more significantly—my response always inspires the same reaction from each and every one of them.

Why I wear a red string

This is my response when they ask me why I wear a red string around my wrist:

“I wear this red string around my wrist as a talisman because it is thought to have magical powers of protection.  It is said to ward off misfortune and attract good luck. It’s a tradition associated with some of the most observant forms of Orthodox Judaism and Kabbalah.  While I am not Orthodox, I believe in its power.”

The string is made from thin red wool, and I am sure it is not a coincidence that it is such a vibrant shade of this powerful hue. I wear it on my left wrist, nearest to my heart. Seven tiny knots secure it. My husband, Shelly, wears one as well.

The rules of the red string

As part of this ritual, you must never cut off the string. It has to fall off the wearer on its own accord, at which time a loved one ties another red string around the wearer’s wrist.

My last red string stayed on my wrist for exactly one year to the day.  And the one I am currently wearing is approaching that benchmark, and I am curious to see how long it will last.

Where the tradition comes from

In fact, the custom of wearing the red string dates back to biblical times, as it is mentioned in Genesis 38. But today, thanks to many celebrities who have embraced this tradition (such as Madonna, Gwyneth Paltrow, Mick Jagger and dozens more), it is most associated with Judaism’s Kabbalah, the ancient Jewish tradition of mystical interpretation of the Bible.

After I explain the meaning of the red string to someone, I always get the same questions, which in truth make it clear anyone can embrace this practice. So I am sharing them with you, dear readers, in the event that you want to embrace this tradition.

Frequently asked questions about the red string

  1. Do I have to be Jewish to wear a red string?
    No.  Anyone can embrace this tradition. The red string represents an article of faith in a number of different beliefs.  
  2. Do you have an extra red string to tie on my wrist? 
    I only tie the red string on my family or my dearest friends. So my answer always depends on who is asking. But the lesson for you is that it this is something you can embrace yourself, since red strings can be purchased online, and passed on to others whom you want to touch in a meaningful way.
  3. Will it matter if I wear it on my right wrist? 
    Yes.  It is worn on the left wrist because the left side of the body is the receiving side.
  4. How long will my red string stay on my wrist if I am lucky enough to have one?
    There is no set time. It depends on the wearer.  As I mentioned above, my last red string stayed on my wrist a year.
  5. How will I replace my red string when it falls off on its own?
    My red strings are from Jerusalem. I get them at the Western Wall in the Old City of Jerusalem from religious Jewish women for a small donation. I will only wear red strings from Israel because these women bless them, and that holds great meaning for me. However, you can purchase them online.
  6. How do you feel wearing your red string?
    I feel protected by something “bigger.” I feel closer to my religion. I know I am portraying who I am.
  7. What’s the best place to buy a red string online?
    I do not endorse any one source, but these are sold by many online sources, including Amazon, the Kabbalah Centre and more.

So far, I have never run out of red strings for my family and close friends. And that’s a good thing because I can’t tell you how often I receive emails and texts with this message:

“My red string fell off! I feel lost without it! Please send another one soon…if you can!”

I can and I do. Thank goodness I brought back a number of “blessed red strings from Israel” last time I was there.  And next time I go, I will be sure to deepen my stash. After all, and fortunately for me, my world of family and friends is always expanding.

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  • Penelope Steiner says:

    This is a prescient reminder that there’s something more mystical, spiritual than a world of materiality. Thank you for sharing this wise tale. P

  • Karina says:

    hi! thank you so much for explaining all of this. I trully appreciate it.
    I have a question. I know you said that it cannot be cut, however, this happened to me: I asked my mom to tie it for me, but she tied it too loose and it bothers me more than it should. It bothers me to an extent that I cannot even look at it. She says that maybe there is a sign for me to have it like that. So, what should I do!??

  • Johanna Flores says:

    Hi Honey sorry not sure if you would even read this message, but I am a true believer of the kabbalah red bracelet. I have been wearing them for years since my very first one, one of my best friends who is jewish tied it on my left wrist. I want to ask you, what should I do with the ones that break off? Should I keep them or toss them. What’s the process?
    Thanks again for taking the time to read this message. I’ve learned few things about it since reading your post.

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      I do not keep them. I immediately have a new one tied on my rest. I carry a red string with me at all times in a tiny pillbox with a photo of the Eiffel Tower on the top because I love Paris.It is my pleasure reading your message. Warmly, Honey

      • MinnieSui says:

        Hi Honey! I appreciate the article, but I have a question in relation to the treatment of a red string that breaks. I heard I should burn it, is it true? Thank you!

  • Dana B says:

    So, who has to tie this string on my wrist? Can I do it myself? And, does it have to be a specific material of the string?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Someone who loves you has to do it. Tie it tight. Seven knots. Left wrist closest to your heart. Red thread or red yarn. Hope this helps. Warmly, Honey

  • Evgeni says:

    When red string is tied 7 nods can long pieces be cut short ?

  • Dawn McLaughlin says:

    Due to my job, I can not wear my red string on my wrist. Is it just as effective on my left ankle?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      It sure is!!! One of my girlfriend’s husband who is very religious wears his red string on his ankle. Warmly, Honey

    • Mary Anne says:

      Hi Honey, i was so blessed and all my financial problem been solved that time i wear my red string bracelet believe me or not the day i resolved my biggest problem in my financial.. the also my red string fell off into my hands.. i am pretty sure it tied totally because it just 5 months since i bought it.. they told me i was cleansed and red bracelet already absorbed all the my problems and all the negatives vibes in my life.. my question what i am going to do with my red string which already fell off and i can’t use anymore cause it loosen all the string.. should i throw it or keep it with me.. thanks for your reply..

  • elenski says:

    is it ok to wear the string all the time.. I mean can I wear it even when taking a bath etc…?

  • MinnieSui says:

    Hi Honey! I appreciate the article, but I have a question in relation to the treatment of a red string that breaks. I heard I should burn it, is it true? Thank you!

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      I have never heard that. I just toss mine and tie another one on my left wrist.

      • Diana says:

        I was told the same.
        However, I was told to burn it outside of my house so that all of the bad vibes/spirits do not enter my home or my body.
        And also to wrap it around my wrist or ankle 12 times.

        • Susan "Honey" Good says:

          It is unnecessary to burn the red string. I have never heard of that. Tie the red string around your wrist and knot it 7 times. Hope this helps. Warmly, Honey

  • Deanna says:

    Thank you so much for this beautiful post. I have been wearing a red string for a couple of months now. The first one became too tight and uncomfortable, and I finally gave in and cut it off. This one I tied looser, and for a couple of weeks it was comfortable, but now I find that it’s getting tight too! How do people manage to wear them a year, or until they break? Thanks 🙂

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Mine has been on over a year with no problem so I cannot give you an answer from my experiences. My husbands lasted a year and I just tied another one on his wrist a few weeks ago. Maybe it is the type of red string material you are using? Mine is a light wool from the Wall in Jerusalem. I am not aware that it is on my wrist unless I am looking at it. Good luck. Warmly, Honey

  • Lyn Escaño says:

    My red string fell off.. can i replace another one?

  • Angel see says:

    Who should cut the extra string. It’s quite long .

  • Angel see says:

    Can I cut the extra string after tying it by loved one 7x? Its long and who should cut it?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Anyone may cut it and yes, you can. I was just looking at my red string. It has been on my wrist for over a year! Warmly, Honey

  • Qweany Rose Magbanua says:

    I just got my red string today. It has it beads that serve as its lock so I just tied it myself. Would that be fine ? Or I should ask a love one to remove it and tie it back? Hope you can read this. Thank u .

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      To make your red string even more special have someone you love retie it on you.Then you will have your memory and your red string. Warmly, Honey

    • Charmen says:

      Hi! I got my red string and wore it right away. It has a lock so I easily just locked it. Should I wear it again and knot it 7times? Also, are there do’s and don’ts in wearing one? My friend said you’re not allowed to wear it inside church (I’m a Catholic), in a wake, or cementery. I feel so worried because I’ve worn it inside our church and during a visit in my uncle’s wake.

      • Susan "Honey" Good says:

        You can go into any church and cemetery with your red string. Your red string guards and protects you 24/7 wherever you are. It is lovely that you wore it in your church and to your Uncle’s wake.Knot it 7 times if possible and enjoy your red string. Warmly, Honey

  • shirley says:

    Hi, just wear my red string bracelet today but my husband tie it too loose, can i retie it? i mean can we removed it and tie it again?

  • Dennis says:

    i really hope you can read this. my string was too short to be tied 7 times, i was just able to tie 5 is that okay? because my red string has like gems/beads in it like designs.

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      It will work. Don’t worry. As long as you have the red string around your wrist you will be protected. Warmly, Honey

  • Mary says:

    hello :)) is it okay not to tie it to 7 knots?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Yes, it is fine. As long as you have the red string around your wrist you will be protected. Warmly, Honey

  • Dennis says:

    i just bought one and the string was to short to tie it 7 times is it okay if it was tied like 5 times only, and is it also okay not to tie 7 knots??. i bought one with like stones and gems in them. i hope you see this ♡

  • Zoella says:

    i just bought and the string was too short to tie it 7 times is it okay if it was tied like times only?, and is it also okay not to tie 7 knots? i hope you see and reply to this

  • James says:

    My daughter has been wearing one for almost a year now and it doesn’t look like it’s about to come off anytime soon. The problem is, she’s growing up and the string looks like its on the verge of cutting off circulation. In this case, can I cut off the string?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Yes you can and should. Maybe save it as a keepsake. Tie another one on if you would like to. Warmly,Honey

  • Jake Garfield says:

    Are guys able to wear the bracelets with 7 knots?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Absolutely!. My husband wears his red string. And, so do other men I know. Enjoy!!! Warmly, Honey

  • Zara says:

    What if more than one loved one wanted to put a red string on my wrist can I wear more that one string on the same wrist or Can I wear on both wrists?

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Wear as many strings as you wish and on both wrists if you choose to. How lovely be so loved.I am sure there are some steadfast Kabbalah laws but I have not delved into them. One of our male friends wears a red string on his ankle.It is the symbolism that is important. I wear my red string on my left wrist because it gives me comfort. Warmly, Honey

  • Charm says:

    If in case you go to shower,do you need to remove it? Or is it ok to put water on it

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