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Be bold: Why you should wear red after 50

 

Does Red Suit Older Women? A Color Guide for Fashion

Introduction to Red in Fashion

Red is one of the most dynamic and powerful colors in the world of fashion, instantly adding excitement and energy to any outfit. For women who love fashion and want to keep their style fresh and chic, bright red is a fabulous choice at any age. Whether you’re slipping on a bright red dress for a special occasion, adding a pop of color with red shoes, or simply swiping on a bold, bright red lipstick, this color has the power to transform your overall look and make you feel absolutely gorgeous.

Fashion designers and style icons like Iris Apfel have long celebrated the impact of color, and red is no exception. It’s a color that says you’re confident, you love fashion, and you’re not afraid to have a little more fun with your wardrobe. No matter your age, incorporating red into your closet is a chic way to express your own style and add a touch of excitement to your everyday outfits. So if you’re wondering whether red suits older women, the answer is a resounding yes—red is for anyone who wants to feel vibrant, stylish, and full of life.

Clothes and dress choices are a powerful form of self-expression, allowing us to communicate our personality, mood, and confidence to the world. Our environment—including the colors we surround ourselves with and wear—can significantly influence our mood and style, shaping how we feel and how others perceive us.

I was once told red is a power color. It takes a confident person to wear red because it attracts attention. Red is associated with excitement, passion, danger, energy, courage, and action, making it a bold choice for anyone looking to make a statement. It just so happens that red is a fantastic color around the holidays as well. Bright colors like white or pink can stimulate positive emotions, while dark colors often conjure negative emotions; in fact, women often feel more upbeat when exposed to pink, which is linked to optimism. So let’s talk about the color red and why as a woman over 50 you should definitely be wearing it. I guess which shade of red works best really depends on your skin tone and personal style—some women look stunning in vibrant cherry red, while others might find deeper, muted reds more flattering.

Many older women, including perhaps your own mom, tend to gravitate toward neutral colors as they age, sometimes due to societal pressure or a desire to be less visible because of body changes. This shift in clothing preferences is common, but embracing the idea of bold colors and dresses can enhance self-expression and confidence.

Red has been a trend on runways, but it’s important to note that our perception of color changes as we age—our brains become less sensitive to the intensity of colors, and brighter colors may appear less vivid. Still, as style icon Iris Apfel famously said, “Color can raise the dead,” reminding us that bold choices in clothes and environment can invigorate our personal style at any age. Deeper, muted reds like brick red, terracotta, and cinnamon can add a warm glow without accentuating ruddiness, making them especially flattering for older women who want to embrace color without drawing attention to skin redness.

The Psychology of Color and Age

As we grow older, our perception of color can subtly shift—our brains may not register the intensity of bright colors as vividly as they once did. This is why it’s so important to be intentional with the shades we choose for our wardrobe. Dark colors like dark gray, black, and even deep brown can sometimes make us feel less energetic or even a bit invisible, especially as we reach a certain age. On the other hand, bright colors such as bright red, yellow, and pink can bring a sense of fun, joy, and positivity to our style, instantly lifting our mood and making our outfits feel more lively.

Research shows that wearing bright colors can actually stimulate positive emotions and help us feel more confident and engaged in life. While society often encourages women to stick to neutral shades like white, cream, or gray as they age, these colors can sometimes lack the cheerfulness and elegance that bright shades provide. By choosing to wear red and other vibrant colors, women can create a wardrobe that feels more youthful, expressive, and true to their own sense of style. Don’t be afraid to let your personality shine through your clothes—embrace those bold shades and enjoy the fun they bring to your overall look.

Having the confidence to wear red

I’ve talked a lot about visibility as we age. Many women our age have said they no longer feel visible and relevant, but as women over 50, we should want to be vibrant and visible. There is no need to be a shrinking violet because of your age, darling. One of the ways we can take hold of that visibility is through our fashion. Gone are the days when women of “a certain age” should feel they need to stick to modest or bland colors ( for more fashion faux pas click here). Wear what you love and if you love red WEAR RED. And if you aren’t so sure about red, but found a beautiful piece of clothing that’s red WEAR RED. It really is that simple. I am a big advocate of wearing what you makes you feel good because when you feel good you look good. It is a bold color. Red really is a power color. So feel your power and embrace the color.

Red is also back in fashion. It was popping up on runways for the 2017 fall and winter season so wearing red will be right on trend this winter.

Note: When shopping for red pieces, consider adding a red tee or even a splash of red in your workout wear to bring vibrancy and energy to your closet. The right shade of red can be especially flattering for women with silver hair.

Pairing red with neutrals is always a classic choice. A red suit can be styled with a white top or tee for a balanced and striking look. For a softer, yet vibrant combination, try mixing red with pastels. When choosing a red suit, the trouser style can significantly affect your overall look—opt for a cut that flatters your shape. You can also dress down a red suit with sneakers for a more casual vibe.

When accessorizing, matching your bag with your shoes can beautifully complement a red suit.

Building a timeless wardrobe with red

As we move through life, it’s easy to find ourselves reaching for the same dark colors—think dark gray, black, or navy—especially as we get to a certain age. But if you truly love fashion and want to keep your wardrobe feeling fresh and fabulous, it’s time to consider the power of bright red. Adding a pop of red, or even other bright colors like yellow, blue, pink, or orange, can instantly lift your mood and make your overall look more elegant and chic. A fashion designer would tell you that red is not just a color—it’s a statement, and it’s a wonderful way to express your own style and bring more fun into your daily outfits.

Building a timeless wardrobe with red starts with understanding how different shades can work for you. Bright red pairs beautifully with classic neutrals like white, gray, or cream, creating a stunning contrast that feels both modern and sophisticated. If you’re feeling adventurous, try mixing red with other bright colors—coral with blue or yellow, for example—for a gorgeous, fresh look that’s full of inspiration. Don’t forget, as women, we tend to stick to safe, dark colors as we age, but embracing red can make you feel more visible, confident, and absolutely fabulous.

When choosing the right red for your wardrobe, consider your skin tone and hair color. If you have silver or gray hair, blue-based reds can look especially striking and elegant, while warmer, orangey reds might suit those with golden or brown tones. For warm undertones, orangey reds, coral, and earthy reds are more flattering. For cool undertones, blue-based reds such as true reds, cherry red, ruby, or garnet are ideal. Rich, saturated shades like burgundy, crimson, ruby, and blue-based reds work beautifully for older women. The key is to find a shade that makes you feel radiant and chic. And if you’re not quite ready to wear red from head to toe, start small—cute red slippers, a bright red bag, or a bold belt can add just the right touch of color to your outfit without overwhelming your style.

Accessories are your best friend when it comes to experimenting with red. A pair of red shoes, a chic bag, or even a playful scarf can transform a simple outfit into something truly special. The beauty of red is that it works for any occasion, whether you’re dressing up for a night out or just want to add a little excitement to your everyday look. A red lip can quickly add power to an outfit; creamy or moisturizing formulas are recommended for mature skin. And don’t forget to look for inspiration in the latest posts from fashion bloggers, magazines, or even your favorite social media accounts—there’s a whole world of ideas out there to help you match red with other shades and create outfits that feel uniquely you.

Above all, remember that fashion should be fun. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different combinations—pair red with pink or orange for a bold statement, or stick to more neutral shades and let your accessories do the talking. Building a timeless wardrobe with red is all about expressing your own sense of style and enjoying the process. So go ahead, add a splash of bright red to your closet, and discover just how much more fun and fabulous your wardrobe—and your life—can be! Nude heels or pumps are classic choices to elongate the leg when wearing a red dress.

Looking ahead to 2026, Chili Red is noted for its earthy yet bold versatility for older women. A total red look is a bold trend in 2026, achieved by mixing different textures for added depth and interest.

When searching for inspiration, be sure to check out the latest post from your favorite fashion blogger or browse a recent Instagram post for real-life examples of how older women are styling red. Engaging with these posts—liking, commenting, or even sharing your own red outfit—can help you stay connected with the latest trends and ideas.

Incorporating red into your look

And now that that’s out of the way, let’s talk about some practical ways to incorporate red into your clothes—whether you’re shopping for new pieces or updating your wardrobe for the holidays or all year round.

Adding a splash of red to your workout wear is a fun way to bring vibrancy to your clothes and express your personal style.

How do you wear red? Leave a comment below and share your favorite ways to add red to your wardrobe!

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Lipstick

I adore bold lipstick and what is more classic than a red lip. However, while bright red lipstick is a timeless choice, sometimes avoiding bright red lipstick when wearing a red suit can help keep the focus on the outfit rather than the lips. It’s a simple styling tip to create a balanced, polished look. It is also the way to wear red with the least amount of commitment.

MAC in Ruby Woo – Buy it here: $17.50 at Nordstrom

Tom Ford Lip Color  in Spanish Pink  – Buy it here: $54 at Nordstrom

Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick in Fiery – Buy it here:  $22 at Nordstrom

Scarves and wraps

If you are a woman more usually drawn to neutrals a scarf is a perfect way to add a pop of red to an ensemble.

Left: Women’s Free People Kolby Stripe Fringe Scarf – Buy it here: $48 at Nordstrom

Center: Ralph Lauren Rope Cable-Knit Wool Scarf Wine One Size – Buy it here: $115 at Ralph Lauren

Right: Echo ‘Radiance’ Eyelash Fringe Wrap – Buy it here: $39 at Nordstrom

Accessories

Another subtle way to play with red is in your jewelry and accessories. I have a beautiful modern floral pin that I often wear on my lapel.

Left: Sonia Rykiel Heart Pin Brooch – Buy it here: $65 at Orchard Mile

Center: Women’s Baublebar Noel Statement Necklace – Buy it here:  $58 at Nordstrom

Right: Zenzii Garden Party Earrings – Buy it here: $38 at Anthropologie

I always have a little red in my life, darlings, because of my red string. It is my protector. If you haven’t read about my red string the story is here. I always feel better with a little red on so I hope you will consider it, especially around the holidays. Be bold and be you!

Styling a Red Suit with a Fashion Designer

Styling a red suit can feel a bit daunting, but with a few tips inspired by a fashion designer’s eye, you can create a look that’s both elegant and chic for any occasion. The key is to pay attention to the shade of red and how it complements your skin tone and hair color. For example, a bright red suit can look stunning when paired with classic neutrals like white or gray, creating a crisp, modern contrast that’s perfect for both day and evening events. If you have silver or gray hair, a blue-based red can be especially flattering, while those with warmer skin tones might find that a slightly orangey red brings out their natural glow.

Don’t be afraid to play with bright colors in your accessories—think a bold red bag or a pair of cute red shoes to complete your outfit. If you want to add even more fun, try mixing your red suit with a pastel or patterned blouse for a fresh twist. The right advice from a fashion designer is always to choose pieces that make you feel confident and reflect your own style. Whether you’re dressing for a special occasion or just want to make your everyday wardrobe more fabulous, a red suit is a timeless, elegant choice that will always make you stand out in the best way.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

While red is a fabulous color to add to your wardrobe, there are a few common mistakes that can take your look from chic to less-than-stylish. One of the biggest pitfalls is pairing red with dark colors like black or brown, which can create a harsh contrast and sometimes make your skin look pale or washed out. Instead, try matching red with brighter shades like yellow, pink, or coral for a more vibrant and youthful effect.

Another mistake is choosing the wrong shade of red for your skin tone or hair color. A red that’s too cool or too warm can clash with your natural coloring, making your hair look dull or your complexion less radiant. Take the time to experiment with different shades—whether it’s a bright red, a soft coral, or a deep berry—until you find the one that makes you feel absolutely gorgeous. Remember, the goal is to create an outfit that reflects your personality and sense of style, so don’t be afraid to have a little fun and break away from the usual dark colors. With the right choices, red can be the most chic and flattering color in your closet.

Staying Up-to-Date with Fashion Trends

Fashion is always evolving, and staying up-to-date with the latest trends is a great way to keep your wardrobe feeling fresh and fabulous. Bright red is a color that never really goes out of style, but it’s especially on-trend right now—whether you’re wearing a bright red dress, a pair of red shoes, or a statement red handbag. To keep your look current, take inspiration from fashion designers, style icons, and the latest posts on social media. There’s a world of ideas out there to help you find new ways to wear red and make it your own.

Don’t be afraid to experiment with different combinations and accessories—sometimes the most gorgeous, elegant outfits come from a little creativity and a willingness to try something new. Whether you’re dressing up for a special occasion or just want to add more fun to your everyday style, wearing red is an absolutely fabulous way to express your sense of fashion and confidence. Remember, age is just a number, and your style should always reflect your personality and love for life. So go ahead, wear red, and let your wardrobe be a source of inspiration and joy every single day!

November 29, 2017

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  1. Maria says:

    You are certainly correct about the power of color. A few years ago I was in a store on a particularly cold overcast winter ‘s day. Everyone, including myself seemed to be dressed in head to toe black. Then a woman walked past, all head to toe black but carrying a vivid orange/red handbag and bright red lipstick. She looked smashing. I still wear alot of black but always make sure it’s punched up with either a bright lipstick or pashmina. When I needed a new winter coat I made sure it was any color except black/brown/navy or grey. Ended up with a coral red coat and I feel great wearing it. It must look good because of the compliments it receives. The coat is simple in design but the color makes all the difference. There’s no need to feel invisible unless you want to. Maria

    P.S. I think we regular readers need an update on how dear Orchid is doing.

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      I have a red coat, too. And, I love to wear black with red lipstick and the idea of a red-orange bag just completes the look.
      Orchid is holding her own. Thank you for asking. Her Liver condition is now 100 percent better. The feelings in her legs are getting worse but she is eating very well, drinking lots of water, wagging her tail and kissing. She is like a child with polio. Warmly, Honey

  2. dianne says:

    I love a punch of red, esp. around the holidays…I do not want to become invisible. Living in a country setting in Central IL (although I have a NYC daughter – so get the best of both worlds) I can get away with lots of fun flannels (I dress them up with riding boots and leather jackets…born and bred in Detroit, so this city girl still gets her edge on!). I love red buffalo plaid check or other red plaid – a Ralph Lauren girl at heart (even though I can’t afford his pieces – I love the look and Bass Pro has quality flannel shirts – on sale now $25!). I find scarfs, capes and bold rings are another way to add color. If I don’t add color to an outfit, I like to make sure I have at least one interesting accessory or have some texture to my outfit. Clothing is art that reflects our inner self. I am interesting and laid back, with a fun side…so I like to present that to the world so they know what to expect from me! I seem to draw young adults to me and sometimes it starts with them liking my style…even though I am not trendy like them! It then goes deeper than that, and it’s good to know that generation “sees” me…It’s a good thing they do because at 60 I work w/young adults in my volunteering and on the job! It’s all about confidence! We aren’t ready at our age to shrink back into the background, so we need to speak with our clothing for that dynamic first impression, because sometimes that’s all others have to go on! I don’t want to be dismissed in the first seconds of meeting someone! 🙂 You definately wouldn’t be dismissed – I am sure even at first glance many would want to get to know you! (Glad Orchid is feeling better and has a loving home.)

  3. Jane says:

    I’ve seen a lovely red dress, I used to love wearing red, but my OH thinks it’s an angry colour (and I’m angry enough 😁). At 58 (pushing 59) am I too old to carry off a red dress to a family wedding, or should I just stick with black and dress it up with some red accessories?

    • Honey Good says:

      If you feel comfortable in black wear black with red accessories. Please wear what makes you personally uplifted and happy. I truly like your idea. Warmly, Honey