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The Surprising Joys of Wanderlust After 50: Ignite Your Passion for Adventure

Wanderlust should bring about a strong desire to travel and see new things and spark new curiosities.

Wanderlust should bring about a strong desire to travel and see new things and spark new curiosities.

 

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I think the benefit of wanderlust is one of the ultimate currencies. You are giving yourself a chance to fill your pockets with the wonder of exploration and discovery. What could be better than to embark on this type of adventure after 50?

To be able to wander and gallivant through twists and turns of unknown places. Bringing travel and personal growth into your life is magical in so many ways.

To entertain your deep thoughts or leave your cares behind. Wandering gives you the ability to grow and enrich your thinking patterns. Or meet and greet new places and people. It is marvelous for the soul of women over 50. Trust me, I know.

2 Types of Wanderlust After 50: The Itch to Travel

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Wanderlust can bring you a strong desire to explore your own backyard, our incredible United States, or the breathtaking world.

Exploration is a key part of wanderlust, leading to personal growth and discovery.

You have to make up your mind up to embrace wanderlust. You can embark on a long walk in an arboretum. Or you can plan a day trip to two places in your community that are waiting for you to explore. You can travel in your own country (read here about how you can join my planned group trip next year exploring our beautiful national parks). Or be extravagant and plan a trip around the world. The point is … to wander.

Travelling after 50 can be about embracing long-term, slow, and meaningful journeys that allow for personal growth, self-discovery, and cultural immersion. Consider flexible travel styles like slow travel or immersing yourself in local communities for a more enriching experience.

Start with the destination you want to explore. Then make your plan with no sidetracking aloud. You are on a mission … set your goal and do your research. Plan to leave your home orderly. Make plans for travel experiences, including holidays, and be sure to schedule visits to destinations or community events to experience places firsthand. Buy some new sunglasses. (Like these, my new favorites I picked them up in Greece! I’m wearing them in the above photo! Don’t you just love them?) Don’t forget a great hat to protect your face from the sun, and sunblock with zinc (even in the winter!).

Additionally, please don’t forget to buy a journal to record your adventure. I never leave home without doing and having the above! Recording your travel experiences can provide inspiration and new perspectives.

If you’re feeling invisible, you are not alone. It is a worldwide epidemic. Wanderlust can inspire feelings of belonging to a broader world and different cultures. 

MY GRANDFATHER’S DAUGHTER

Presently, I would love to share what ignited my wanderlust. People of all ages can feel the pull of wanderlust, just as my grandfather did. I am my grandfather’s granddaughter. How proud he would be to see my thirst for wandering the world. He travelled yearly and in those days it was not the norm. He spoke with a broken tongue, he was a man of few words but embarked on trips around the world several times! His journeys to many places served as an inspiration for me as a person seeking adventure.

It is a pity we never had the opportunity to discuss and share our adventures with one another. I would love to know what drove him to have such wanderlust.

On his travels, he would never forget to remember his 14 grandchildren and five daughters-in-law with gifts. I still have a ring from Egypt. He gifted me with storybook dolls from around the world that my mother threw away when I left for college. And bottles of french perfume that I dabbed daily on myself starting as a young girl.

I get tears in my eyes when I write about him, this grandfather of mine. More than anything because I want to shower him with thanks and kisses for showing me how to take a big bite out of life! His journeys were a source of inspiration for my own travel experiences. He was a grand role model.

For those of you who want to dip your painted toes in the water but are afraid, I would love to be your role model.

WHAT’S STOPPING YOU FROM JUMPING IN?

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Wanderlust is essential to staying curious as a woman over 50.

Making concrete plans and considering your financial stability can help overcome hesitation and make travel more accessible and enjoyable.

If you are hesitating, here are a couple of tips:

  • Start by creating detailed plans for your travel goals, including both destinations and timelines.
  • Focus on saving and mindful spending to ensure that money does not become a barrier to your adventures. Setting aside savings and budgeting your spending can help you make the most of your resources.
  • Remember, the majority of people who plan ahead and manage their finances are able to enjoy travel after 50, making the most of their post-work years.

Budgeting for a holiday, whether it’s a 14-night trip abroad or a weekend getaway in the UK, is an important part of financial preparedness and ensures you can fully enjoy your travel experiences after 50.

1. THE FIRST RULE OF THUMB IS NOT TO LET FEAR OR LETHARGY PREVENT YOU FROM EXPLORING THE SITES OF YOUR COMMUNITY, THE USA, OR OTHER PARTS OF THE WORLD

Fear and lethargy are two of the most negative words in a woman’s vocabulary. So, my advice is to put them on the back burner!

If you are stuck use your adult children or grandchildren as ploys! Invite them to journey with you. Now you are stuck and it is a good stuck. It gets you committed, you have to start planning, and lo and behold, you will feel an adrenaline rush. Solo travel can also be a rewarding option if you prefer to journey alone, offering flexibility and opportunities for personal growth.

Lethargy and fear will automatically move to the back burner. Because you are now a role model to your adult children or your grandchildren through your positive actions; not your words. You are taking them on an exciting journey and you are the mistress of this adventure. Taking a course, such as a language or cultural class, can also help build your confidence for solo travel or group adventures.

2. PUT YOUR MIND AT EASE — BLOCK OUT FEAR.

Last year I traveled through three countries in Europe; France, Italy, and Greece. People were out and about exploring, as they should be! It was such a joy to be out exploring after our bout in Elsewhere.

People have rebounded and are happy because they are no longer willing to isolate themselves from the world. For example, Mykonos in the Greek Islands is expecting 300,000 to 5000,000 visitors a day this season! A larger growth of tourists than before the epidemic.

Come out of your cocoons and leap into the unknown with family members. Even if the reason of inviting them is to get you back into the race of life.

While we are on the subject of introducing your grandchildren to wanderlust, choose a trip that keeps them close to you, no wandering without you. The purpose of the trip is to be ‘together;’ not meet for dinner. Sharing travel experiences with loved ones creates lasting memories and strengthens family bonds.

We have taken our grands so far to London, Paris, and Normandy. I made them educational trips. They were never out on their own because the purpose of the trips was to explore together. Our multigenerational together times are one of my favorite memories. And, theirs.

Start wandering darling. The best is yet to come!

DESTINATION PLANNING: CHOOSING WHERE YOUR HEART LEADS

When it comes to planning your next adventure after 50, the world truly is your oyster. Destination planning is more than just picking a spot on the map—it’s about choosing places that speak to your soul and offer opportunities for personal growth. Whether you’re drawn to the vibrant local culture of Italy, the sun-drenched coastlines of Spain, or the charming villages of Portugal, there are countless wonderful places waiting to be explored. These countries are favorites among solo travelers and couples alike, offering a delightful mix of relaxation, adventure, and cultural immersion.

For those who crave warmer climes and a touch of the exotic, destinations like Thailand, Vietnam, or Costa Rica beckon with their unique blend of adventure, relaxation, and rich culture. Each trip is a chance to experience new things, savor local cuisine, and connect with people whose lives are both different and inspiring. The key is to plan with your interests and comfort in mind—whether that means exploring bustling cities, tranquil countryside, or hidden gems off the beaten path.

As you consider your next journey, think about what excites you most: Is it the idea of wandering through ancient ruins, tasting new flavors, or simply soaking up the atmosphere of a lively market? There are abundant resources available to help you plan your travels, from online guides to travel industry experts who specialize in trips for those in later life. Remember, every destination offers a chance for new experiences and personal growth, so let your heart lead the way and embrace the adventure that awaits.

SEEING THE WORLD THROUGH NEW EYES

Travel is so much more than simply visiting new places or ticking sights off your bucket list—it’s about truly connecting with the world around you. The art of cultural immersion invites you to step beyond the surface and experience the heartbeat of a destination, whether you’re wandering the ancient streets of Europe, marveling at the Northern Lights, or exploring the hidden gems in your own backyard.

Embracing local culture is one of the most rewarding aspects of travel. By staying in locally-owned accommodations, dining at family-run restaurants, and participating in community events, you gain a deeper appreciation for the traditions and daily life of the people you meet. This approach not only enriches your journey but also supports the local economy, making your adventure more meaningful and sustainable.

For solo travellers, cultural immersion can be especially transformative. Traveling solo gives you the freedom to spend your days at your own pace, following your curiosity and seeking out new experiences. Many individuals find that engaging with local culture helps break down barriers, turning strangers into friends and unfamiliar places into a second home. Whether you’re learning a few words of a new language, joining a local festival, or simply sharing a meal with a new friend, these moments create lasting memories and a renewed perspective on life.

Stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing new cultures is a powerful catalyst for personal growth. It challenges your assumptions, broadens your horizons, and inspires a strong desire to keep exploring. This is true at any age, but especially in later life, when the urge to seek adventure and enjoy life can be reignited by the wonders of the world. The travel industry now offers countless resources and advice for those seeking authentic cultural experiences, from guided tours to immersive workshops, making it easier than ever to plan your next journey.

Cultural immersion doesn’t have to mean traveling to the other side of the world. Sometimes, the most wonderful places are right at your doorstep. Exploring your own community—visiting local museums, attending cultural festivals, or simply chatting with neighbors—can open your eyes to the richness of your own culture and inspire a sense of adventure in daily life.

Iconic destinations like the Grand Canyon, the Northern Lights, and the vibrant cities of Asia and South America have inspired countless travellers, as originally published in travel guides and blogs. But remember, every trip—no matter how near or far—offers the chance to see the world through new eyes. With the right mindset and resources, you can overcome any challenges and create a journey that’s uniquely yours.

So, don’t be afraid to take the leap. Whether you’re planning a grand adventure or a simple day trip, embrace the art of cultural immersion. Be open-minded, curious, and respectful. Try new things, ask questions, and allow yourself to be changed by the experiences you encounter. The world is full of wonderful cultures, amazing sights, and inspiring people—just waiting for you to explore.

In the end, cultural immersion is about more than travel; it’s about personal growth, empathy, and a renewed sense of wonder. So start planning, gather your resources, and get ready to embark on the journey of a lifetime. The world—and all its adventures—awaits you.

EMBRACING SLOW TRAVEL AFTER 50

One of the greatest joys of traveling after 50 is the freedom to set your own pace. With fewer constraints from work or family obligations, many individuals find that slow travel is the perfect way to enjoy life and make the most of their travel experiences. Instead of rushing from one sight to the next, slow travel invites you to linger, to truly immerse yourself in the local culture, and to savor every moment of your journey.

Imagine spending a week exploring the wonders of the Grand Canyon, or taking your time to chase the Northern Lights across the Arctic sky. Perhaps you’d rather wander through a new city, discovering its hidden corners and engaging with the people who call it home. Traveling at your own pace allows you to spend time where it matters most to you—whether that’s with family, friends, or simply enjoying your own company.

The travel industry now offers a wealth of resources to help you plan a journey that fits your lifestyle and interests. From curated itineraries to local guides, there are endless ways to make your trip both meaningful and memorable. Embracing slow travel not only reduces stress but also deepens your connection to the cultures and communities you encounter. So take your time, explore new places, and let each journey become a cherished chapter in your life story.

FINANCIAL PLANNING FOR THE SAVVY TRAVELER

Enjoying life and making the most of your travel experiences after 50 often comes down to smart financial planning. With a little foresight and creativity, you can turn your travel dreams into reality—without breaking the bank. Start by setting a travel budget and looking for ways to save, such as booking trips during the off-season or taking advantage of special offers from travel companies that cater to mature travelers.

Many individuals find that renting out their home or apartment while they’re away provides extra income to fund their adventures. It’s also wise to seek advice from financial experts who can help you plan for both short getaways and longer journeys. Consider the cost of living in different countries, as some destinations offer incredible value for money, allowing you to stretch your resources further and enjoy more of what life has to offer.

Careful planning and mindful spending can bring financial stability and peace of mind, letting you focus on the joys of travel rather than worrying about money. There are plenty of resources available to help you plan, save, and make the most of every trip. With the right approach, you can enjoy life, explore new countries, and create unforgettable travel experiences—no matter your budget.

STAYING SAFE WHILE TRAVELING: PEACE OF MIND ON THE ROAD

Safety is always a top priority, especially for travelers over 50 who want to enjoy life and make the most of their adventures. Taking a few simple precautions can help you travel with confidence and peace of mind. Start by researching your destination thoroughly—learn about local customs, health considerations, and any potential challenges you might face. Many individuals choose to purchase travel insurance, which can provide valuable protection and support in case of unexpected events.

Staying connected with family members and friends back home is another important way to ensure your safety and well-being. Regular check-ins, whether by phone, email, or social media, can offer reassurance to loved ones and keep you supported throughout your journey. Traveling with a friend or family member can also add an extra layer of security and fun, while joining a guided tour or group travel experience can provide structure and companionship.

The travel industry offers a wealth of resources and advice to help you stay safe on the road, from health tips to emergency contacts. By planning ahead and staying informed, you can overcome challenges and focus on what matters most—enjoying your trips, creating lasting memories, and embracing all the wonderful experiences that travel has to offer. So go ahead, darling, and set out on your next adventure with confidence, knowing you have the tools and support to make it a safe and joyful journey.

THERE IS ANOTHER TYPE OF WANDERLUST, WANDERLUST OF THE MIND

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Have you considered wanderlust of the mind? It’s a thing, darling!

Next, I will explore the topic of an entirely different type of wanderlust. Wanderlust of the mind. We all have our personal emotional baggage. After all, we are not programmed robots. We are human. None of us can pretend that our lives are all sweetness and light.

We have a choice; we can stew or we can solve. Period. Stewing is not healthy. On the other hand, solving is enlightening. With persistence and self-reflection, you will eventually find the answers you seek.

What is your most pressing burden or impediment that prevents you from ultimate joy? I know mine and I am sure you know yours. Read this story if you want to explore more of the topic of having joy hope and serenity, and if you’re struggling, read How to Remove Roadblocks and Enjoy Your Success

WHEN EMOTIONAL WANDERLUST MET A DEAD END

I wander through my mind with a most pressing burden. I have finally acknowledged I have the wisdom to realize this. However, the issue remains that I lack the tools to solve the problem. I am sure you find yourself in these situations from time to time.

The transition to retirement can often prompt emotional wanderlust and a search for new meaning, as individuals look to redefine their purpose and explore new opportunities in this phase of life.

Recently, I have traveled with wanderlust through my feelings and suddenly reached a fork in the road and got stuck. I realized I do not have the tools without help from a professional.

So ultimately, I took the next step. I invited her to join me on a journey through my mind to search for the magic elixir. One that will induce love and respect from others who I feel are harming me. Hopefully, this will alleviate my anger toward myself. My lack of ability to take a stand in uncomfortable situations.

IT ALL COMES BACK TO COMMUNICATION

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Communication is the most important part of a strong relationship and finding your way through any issues you’re going through.

Until I understand why I take the wrong high road in uncomfortable situations — silence — I will not be able to be forthright to others or true to myself.

This situation has been going on for years and has to come to a head. At its starting point years back and moving forward until now, I took the wrong high road. Silence.

Pretending all is fine and sweeping the problem under the table never solves a problem. Remaining silent because one does not know how to communicate diplomatically is a disservice to oneself and others.

Just as we must manage practical matters like rent to free up resources for travel and lifestyle choices, we also need to address the emotional costs we carry to achieve true peace of mind.

Communication is a skill when there is serious conflict. To roar baby roar on the high road of your journey. In combination with the right communication tools is the key to the perfect trip.

First and foremost, the main requirement is to be an honest broker to yourself.

Silence is not golden. Communication is.

Wanderlust through the mind must be well thought out. With help if needed. And should be an organized journey to your pot of gold … resolve.

I will wander through my mind as long as it takes to find the ‘right’ answer that will give me peace. When I have peace of mind and regained my self-respect in this matter, I will be able to say this journey was a discovery. An enlightened time in my life and my travel will not have been in vain.

Have you considered that there are two types of wanderlust? I’d love to hear your thoughts! Join the conversation in the comments below.

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November 12, 2023

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  1. DeRita Vitto says:

    Thank you for the simple advice especially when you want to do something to spend time with your grandkids and not go too far off 😊 and the glasses are stunning I have to find me a pair like that..

  2. Carol says:

    Great ideas and advice!

  3. Patricia Nisenholz says:

    Spiritual and Physical wanderlust ~ Interesting…
    I LOVED your part on the mind/spirit wanderlust. I work on this all the time to no avail….I am the generation of “Children should be seen and not heard”. Guess I have not gotten the message, that message is SO old..
    Just returned from a wanderlust trip to Sicily & Malta.. where my spiritual wanderlust was fulfilled.

    • Susan Good says:

      You have an abundance of good thoughts and ideas. Don’t suppress them. Shout them to the mountain top even if you are the only one who hears them. Glad your trip was a great adventure. Warmly Honey