Let’s talk about what to avoid in style after the age of 50!

A woman’s inner style is the key to genuine style. And, as far as I am concerned “older is the new black.” Style advice can be relevant for women of all ages, helping everyone look and feel their best no matter where they are in life. Even though I have natural silver hair, my body has changed. I have bad feet, my hands no longer look young, my boobs have dropped and I notice when I walk through airports young people pass me, it matters not. It’s important to embrace the person you are today, not who you were in the past. The clothes you wore in earlier years may not suit your current style or body, and that’s a natural part of personal evolution. My husband tells me all the time, “You have such a positive attitude.”

Introduction to Ageless Style

Ageless style is all about embracing who you are right now and celebrating your unique journey. It’s not about trying to look younger or squeezing into clothes that don’t suit your current body. Instead, it’s about wearing clothes that make you feel fabulous, confident, and comfortable in your own skin. So many women discover that the secret to ageless style is finding a classic style that highlights their best features and reflects their personality. Whether you love a pair of high-waisted jeans, a bold accessory, or the perfect pair of high heels, the key is to dress in a way that makes you feel like the best version of yourself. Dressing with intention and confidence allows you to create a wardrobe that is both modern and timeless, filled with pieces you absolutely love. Remember, ageless style isn’t about following every trend—it’s about curating a chic, classic wardrobe that works for your body, your age, and your lifestyle. When you feel great in your clothes, you radiate confidence and joy, no matter your age.

Taking Care of Your Inner and Outer Classic Style After 50

Most of you know that I am a 21st-century grandmother with over 20 grandchildren who call me “Honey.” I am married to an exciting man (my Ultimate Concierge) who wears red-framed glasses and loves to take me shopping.

I own my sense of style, hoard my classic clothes and use luxurious olive or coconut oil on my skin. I take daily walks with my soft-coated Wheaten Terrier, America, work out on a regular basis, write my blogs and eat lots of fish to maintain my health.

I have an emotional inner style routine. And, I live in the present, try to make lemonade out of lemons, see my glass half full, smile often and I always have a purpose. I don’t spend time worrying about aging; I worry about becoming boring. Wearing clothes that make me feel good can truly boost my mood and confidence. I spend most of my time with my husband. I text my family who live in seven different states, write my blogs, run my business, HoneyGood.com, have a multi-faceted social life, solve my hardships as best I can when they present themselves (and they do), and keep up with fashion. As I often say, “I am so busy, I am dizzy!” But I like it just fine.

It has taken me years to get where I am and it hasn’t been easy. It is all about a positive attitude and a lot of effort.

I realize that a woman’s outer style is vital to a woman’s emotional well-being, especially for those of us over 50. The truth is, style is about authenticity and not about following outdated rules. Therefore, I am going off subject matter for a short time to share some of the fashion no-nos I have learned over the years—because some style rules or habits that may have applied in the past don’t necessarily apply anymore.

Understanding Your Body

As we age, our bodies naturally change, and understanding these changes is the first step to creating a wardrobe that truly flatters. Every woman’s body is unique, and finding clothes that offer a flattering fit can make all the difference in how you look and feel. Pay attention to your shape, your skin tone, and how different fabrics and cuts work with your body. Instead of focusing on trends or squeezing into clothes that are too tight, choose pieces that highlight your best features and make you feel great. For example, a classic pair of jeans in a cut that suits your shape, or a dress in a color that complements your skin tone, can instantly boost your confidence. Dressing for your lifestyle is just as important—whether you’re running errands, meeting friends, or enjoying a special occasion, your outfits should reflect both comfort and style. By focusing on timeless, well-made clothing and creating outfits that suit your body and your life, you’ll always look and feel your best.

Building a Timeless Wardrobe

Creating a timeless wardrobe is about investing in classic, high-quality pieces that never go out of style. Instead of chasing every new trend or filling your closet with bold prints that you’ll tire of quickly, focus on staple items that can be worn in countless ways. A pair of high-waisted jeans, a tailored blazer, and a crisp white shirt are just a few examples of classic pieces that form the foundation of a chic wardrobe. Add a bold accessory, like a statement necklace or a standout handbag, to give your outfits a personal touch. When shopping, look for clothes made from quality materials and in styles that flatter your body and suit your lifestyle. By curating a wardrobe of timeless pieces, you’ll always have something to wear that makes you feel confident and stylish. Remember, it’s not about the number of clothes you own, but about having the right pieces that you absolutely love and that make you look and feel fabulous every day.

The Power of Accessories

Accessories are the secret weapon of ageless style—they can instantly elevate any outfit and let your personality shine. Whether you’re slipping on a pair of high heels to glam up a simple dress or adding a bold accessory like a statement necklace or colorful scarf, the right accessories can make you feel confident and chic. Even subtle touches, such as a classic watch or a pair of elegant shoes, can add polish to your look without overwhelming it. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different accessories to find what makes you feel your best. Investing in a few high-quality pieces, like a timeless handbag or a pair of earrings you absolutely love, means you’ll always have the perfect finishing touch for any outfit. Remember, accessories aren’t just about following trends—they’re about expressing your unique style and adding joy to your wardrobe, one fabulous detail at a time.

Fashion Don’ts for Flattering Fit for Women Over 50

Looking your best after 50 is all about avoiding common style mistakes and making thoughtful choices that enhance your confidence and appearance. Here are some key fashion don’ts and style tips:

1. I don’t wear sneakers. Fine for working out. Period.
2. Don’t wear bland colours or too many colours at once. My preference is monochromatic clothing with a pop of colour in jewelry, shoes, handbags, and striking eyeglasses. The right colour can enhance your complexion, make your eyes sparkle, and complement your accessories. My French girlfriend in Paris wears a grey suit with a pair of pink pumps and a handbag. I have learned from her. Be daring, darling. My suggestion is to stay away from taupe and beige, as these can sometimes make you look older.
3. I don’t wear boring eyeglass frames. Have fun with your glasses. Take risks. For example, I tint my prescription in my black frames blue and the glass in my pink frames, rose colour. I treat my glasses as accessories. And, I have saved every pair of my glasses I’ve ever had. I just replace my prescription. Remember styles return.
4. My hairstyle should be modern. Overly styled is out. Remember 50 is the new 40, 60 the new 50, 70 the new 60, and 80 the new 70. Consider layering your hair and wear any length that makes you feel vibrant and relevant. A subtle highlight in the front will brighten your face. I think grey hair can be sexy and modern but tricky. You have to know yourself.
5. Unkempt eyebrows are a no-no. As we age, our eyebrow’s thin. I suggest visiting an eyebrow specialist for a tint and a wax. I use a powder with a brush to darken my brows. Many of my girlfriends have tattooed their brows. I have taken a pass because I am afraid my brows may look unnatural.
6. Avoid baggy clothing. Overly baggy or shapeless garments can make you look frumpy and actually make you look older. Instead, choose structured, tailored pieces that enhance your body shape and provide a more youthful, put-together look.
7. Steer clear of frumpy styles. Outdated, oversized, or poorly styled clothing can be a mistake that adds years to your appearance. Edit your wardrobe regularly and opt for well-fitting, modern pieces to avoid looking older.
8. Pay attention to your pants. Well-fitting pants, especially those that fit properly at the waist, can shape your overall look and balance your proportions. Avoid pants that are too loose or too tight, and consider high-waisted or structured trousers for a polished appearance.
9. Low rise jeans may not be the best choice after 50. They can be uncomfortable and may not flatter changing body shapes. Instead, focus on timeless, modern jeans that provide comfort and confidence.
10. Dresses are versatile and appropriate for women over 50. Choose styles that flatter your body type and make you feel confident. Don’t shy away from dresses—wear them for any occasion.
11. Floral dresses can be styled for a modern look. Pair a floral dress with a leather jacket or tailored blazer for a fresh, transitional outfit. Make sure to choose the right fit to flatter your shape and avoid looking frumpy.
12. Undergarments are the foundation of a great outfit. A properly fitted bra and supportive undergarments ensure your clothes sit correctly and comfortably, enhancing your overall appearance and confidence.

Remember, avoiding these common mistakes and making thoughtful style choices will help you look and feel your best at any age.

6. Yellowing teeth should be whitened. Unfortunately, our pearly whites naturally yellow with age. Fortunately, there are several over-the-counter whitening products. Asking your dentist is another option. As the old adage goes, “A beautiful smile is worth a thousand words.” A modern, well-maintained smile can make a world of difference in your overall appearance.
7. Nude and beige hosiery is outdated. For the summer months, I have replaced my sheer nude hosiery with fishnet colored hose, leggings, or spray-on tanner. I wear leggings, tights, and opaque stockings in cold weather. Balancing timeless style with contemporary touches, like updated hosiery or accessories, keeps your look fresh and relevant.
8. Never wear a poorly fitted bra. Invest time (it takes me forever) and money to find a properly fitted bra. If you have a hard time being fitted, I suggest you ask for the most experienced fitter in a department store or private shop.
9. Excessive amounts of makeup are unflattering. Thick foundation, heavy eyeliner and bright blush add years. Toss them out. I use a tinted foundation and a light shade of blush. I have greenish-blue eyes so I wear shades of lavender and navy blue eyeliner. I use a white pencil to dot the inside corner of each eye because I have read that it opens up one’s eye. I agree. I have read time and again that women over 50 should wear soft lip color. I dance to my own drummer, preferring bold color.
10. I feel that an oversized handbag is not fashionable. Consider your size when purchasing a new handbag. Your handbags should not carry you, you should carry the bag.
11. If you can wear ‘em flaunt ‘em… shoes. I can’t wear them but I do. I just love my shoes. I wear platforms over pumps because they are gorgeous and easier to wear. Buy your shoes a size larger and wear brands that have a large toe box.

These tips are for every woman seeking to enhance her style, encouraging you to embrace both timeless style and contemporary fashion choices for a confident, authentic look.

The Key

You can follow my advice about the physical beauty blunders above, but first, darling… remember, “A woman’s inner style is the key to her outer style.”

So, love yourself and others, be passionate about your life, be brave, be informed, walk with confidence and attitude and you will have the best of everything… in style.

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