Having spent the past twenty years of winter in sunny California, this winter season presents a new adventure for my Ultimate Concierge, America, and myself. Winter in my once upon a time beautiful Chicago, otherwise known as Elsewhere, will be different.

The first ‘to do’ on my winter shopping list was to purchase a warm winter fleece-lined coat and a few sweaters for our pooch, America. Blanket scarves are also essential for staying cozy and stylish, providing warmth and versatility for travel or outdoor activities. He is now the proud owner of one winter fleece lined orange coat, boots to keep his feet warm and dry, and three sweaters. I am obsessed with how adorable he looks in his new winter gear. Choosing the right footwear is essential for both pets and people to stay warm and dry during winter.

When shopping for winter, don’t forget that accessories like hats and earmuffs help cover and protect your head and ears from the cold. Jewelry, such as necklaces or earrings, can also complement winter outfits and add a touch of sparkle to your look. Layering and wearing covers such as scarves, hats, and gloves is important to ensure comfort and protection during outdoor winter activities.

My Ultimate Concierge is his own ‘ultimate’ because, I swear on a stack of Bibles, he has more clothes than I have! He needs nothing. He needs nothing except me to keep him nice and warm this winter.

Shopping for My Home

Of course, being the woman I am I have done a little damage to our checkbook if you know what I mean. But, it is interesting because it is not all about clothing. I bought candles! Lots of candles! Some are tapered and nondrip and others are for my bath and office. Then naturally, candle-lit dinners for my Ultimate Concierge and me. I have scented ones and many with color.

I purchased a new Wok, had a cabinet and drawers built into a closet for fine glassware and china, napkins, silverware, placemats, etc. Then I purchased surprises for our kids and grands for Hanukkah, and always keep fresh orchid plants in our home.

Answering Comments

I love writing my stories and answering your comments (I am far behind in answering because of our move, but I promise you will hear back from me) because I love the emotional feeling I get when I give of myself to you and others. As well, I feel I am giving myself a gift! I get pleasure when I share my feelings and ideas or find that something special I know will make someone I care for happy. Oh! And, I almost forgot to mention I opened a new shop on my site,  Honeygood.com!

There is no better time of the year to give back to those you love than the month of December, my favorite month of the year.

Some Hot Tips

Guess what just came to my once beautiful Chicago? The luxury consignment store, The RealReal. And, it is two blocks from our home! Last Friday on my mile walk I stopped in because of my bunions! Yes, it’s my bunion’s fault that I walked out with a Dior jacket priced just right! While the price was slightly higher than some other brands, the quality and style made it worth the investment. Why was it my bunion’s fault? Because I want to sell some of my beautiful shoes that are killing my feet! I know I will make some women very happy—finding the right pairs of shoes or accessories can make a big difference in both comfort and style, especially when you discover cool accessories or outfits at The RealReal that can instantly elevate your winter look. And, I will be giving a gift to strangers and that suits me just fine! It’s also a great way to pick yourself up or gift to others while embracing the latest trend in winter fashion to keep your look fresh. The first hot tip… beautiful well cared for items bought at a discount and the service is perfection.

The Second ‘RealReal’ Tip

I asked my salesperson about the return policy. Two weeks and a credit back to my charge card. I wanted to make sure I would not get stuck with an in-store credit. I am a firm believer in asking the advice of people in the know, so I took my new find to a person who runs the Dior department in a store. She told me it was ‘a keeper.’ She knew it was three years old and even knew the woman who owned it because of the size! She called in alterations and I had my new find fitted. One last tip: The RealReal has an app.

A Tip for Shoes

Lastly, in the tip department, I want to share this prescription. Over the years I have learned how to keep my style and not be crippled because of my bunions! I purchase my shoes a size or two larger. Your shoe will not feel too large. The best brands have a large toe box. This relieves pressure and irritation. Of course, athletic shoes are the best and I recommend Altra, Adidas, and Brooks. I do also like Birkenstocks. Pairing your favorite footwear with cozy tights can keep you both stylish and warm during winter.

Now, let’s go for glamorous! Even though we are all unhappy living in Elsewhere, it is the holiday season. This season is all about a ‘picking ourselves up attitude’ and gifting it to others around you.

So darling, here’s to a bit of glam with attitude! I wear Prada, Miu Miu, Vivier, and Gucci boots; a big ‘yes’ to Saint Laurent and Prada for platforms. When layering for comfort, make sure to leave room to wear a sweatshirt under your winter coat for extra warmth. Here’s the thing, I splurge on my shoes for comfort and style. I treat every pair of my shoes like a necklace or a pair of earrings. They are an accessory. And, your accessories tell others a lot about the you in you. Many pieces in my wardrobe can be worn in multiple ways to suit different winter occasions.

Winter Outfits

When winter arrives and the temperatures drop, it’s the perfect opportunity to get creative with your wardrobe and embrace the art of layering. I always say, darling, that winter outfits are all about finding that sweet spot between staying warm and looking effortlessly chic. The secret? Start with a cozy base—think a soft, ribbed sweater or a lightweight turtleneck—and build from there.

Layering is your best friend this season. Try pairing a classic cashmere sweater with a pair of durable, high-quality boots and some toasty socks for a look that’s both practical and stylish. Don’t forget to add a pop of personality with a patterned scarf or a brightly colored beanie—these winter accessories not only keep you warm but also add a fun twist to your outfit. I’m a huge fan of mixing textures, so don’t be afraid to combine velvet, wool, and even a touch of leather for a look that stands out.

For those days when you want to elevate your style, reach for a pair of leather gloves and a chic belt to cinch your coat or oversized wrap. These little touches can transform even the simplest winter outfit into something truly fabulous. And if you’re heading out for a night on the town, why not slip on a pair of patterned tights under a flowy dress or skirt? It’s a playful way to stay warm while showing off your unique style.

Of course, no winter wardrobe is complete without a few essential accessories. Hand warmers are a lifesaver on especially cold days, and a high-quality pair of socks will keep your feet cozy whether you’re braving the snow or enjoying a quiet night in. I also love carrying a lightweight, durable bag that can hold all my winter essentials—think gloves, scarves, and even a spare pair of mittens for those extra chilly moments.

When it comes to brands, don’t be afraid to explore beyond the classics. While I adore the tried-and-true names, there are so many independent labels offering unique, high-quality winter accessories that can add a special touch to your outfits. Whether you’re drawn to bold colors or prefer a more neutral palette, winter is the perfect season to experiment and let your personality shine through your clothes.

Remember, darling, the best winter accessories are the ones that make you feel both comfortable and confident. So, pull on your favorite pair of boots, wrap up in a soft scarf, and step out into the winter chill knowing you’re covered in both warmth and style. With a little creativity and a few well-chosen pieces, you’ll be ready to enjoy every magical moment this season brings.

Winter Beauty Essentials

When the winter chill sets in and the temperatures drop, it’s time to give your beauty routine—and your wardrobe—a seasonal upgrade. I’m a huge fan of embracing the season with a few winter beauty essentials that keep you looking radiant and feeling toasty, no matter how cold it gets outside.

First things first: don’t forget your skin! The cold air and blustery winds can leave your complexion feeling dry and dull, so reach for a high quality pair of moisturizers packed with hyaluronic acid and ceramides. These essentials lock in moisture and help your skin stand up to even the harshest winter days. Even in winter, the sun can impact your skin, so it’s important to use SPF or protective products. And let’s not overlook our hands—hand warmers and a fabulous pair of leather gloves are absolute must-haves. Not only do they keep your fingers warm and protected, but they also add a chic pop of style to any winter outfit.

When it comes to winter accessories, scarves are my go-to for both warmth and beauty. Whether you prefer a classic cashmere scarf, a trendy oversized wrap, or a velvet number for a touch of luxury, the right scarf can transform your look and keep you cozy all season long. Pair your scarf with a matching beanie or a set of mittens for a coordinated, comfy vibe that’s perfect for snowy nights or brisk morning walks.

Of course, the best winter accessories are as practical as they are stylish. A durable, lightweight bag is essential to carry your everyday beauty must-haves, while a pair of warm, comfy socks will keep your toes toasty whether you’re lounging at home or braving the snow. Don’t be afraid to have a little fun with your winter wardrobe—baseball caps, ribbed beanies, and even a statement belt can add a playful twist to your cold-weather outfits.

This season, invest in quality pieces that suit your style and comfort level. From cozy coats and chic outerwear to essential shoes that can handle a snowy trip, winter is the perfect moment to refresh your wardrobe with items that make you feel beautiful, covered, and ready for anything. Many beauty essentials and accessories can transition seamlessly from winter to summer, making them versatile additions to your collection. So, pull on those bad boys—your favorite gloves, scarves, and socks—and step out with confidence. With the right winter beauty essentials, you’ll stay warm, look fabulous, and truly enjoy the magic of the season.

Sharing Daydreams During the Holiday in Elsewhere

I suppose it is easier for some of us to deal with living in Elsewhere than others. It is hard for me because I am a very curious woman. I can’t say, ‘whatever’ and let the chips fall where they may. Darling, I am always frantically searching to figure things out by listening to all sides of the equation and ‘my gut.’ I tell my Ultimate Concierge what my gut tells me before it happens and so far I have been right. I wish I had been wrong. But, I am a daydreamer… so are you!

A Tip for the Mind… Daydreams

A woman’s ultimate style consists of more than her outer look. It is her entire demeanor. That means her mind, too. Actually, my definition of style is: Style is a woman’s total biography.

I daydream a lot, and as I said before, so do you. Everyone does! Daydreams are our thoughts but I prefer calling my thoughts, my daydreams, because I just like the word better. It is not as serious-sounding as the word thought.

Our daydreams are a gift because they ignite our ideas. Daydreaming expresses what you want, how to get it, or solve it. Unless you are aware of the importance of a daydream you are probably unaware that you should hold on to them and over time act on them because they are the real you in you.

I daydream about many things. Some of my daydreams are not good but many are constructive and some absolutely excite me. They are all realistic because they are my thoughts talking to me.

Make Your Daydreams Happen!

During this time in your life, daydream about something that is very important to you and make a promise to make it happen in 2021! You will be looking forward, not standing still and drowning in Elsewhere. The new chapter in your book of life will not be blank because you are going to fill it in with your daydreams. Write down your daydreams in a journal.

I know you want me to share my daydreams with you. OK. Here goes. I daydream about figuring out a better way to bond with my adult family and grandchildren. I miss them very much and I have a real need for them back into my life. So, I daydream about how I can reignite my sense of wonder, positive curiosity, and humor. I daydream of ways to stick to my program of being good to myself. As well, I daydream about my relationship with my Ultimate Concierge. I daydream about a move to the sea, part-time, and seeing the Silverback Gorillas in Rwanda. And, I daydream about exploring an added plan for Honey Good.

All of my daydreams encompass Elsewhere–a nightmare–because my daydreams are figuring out how to combat current reality to make them come true. But, I know I can do it…. and so will you!

 

 

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