Today’s post is contributed by Merry Lynch Pavlak. She lives in Poland and is a joyful member of my recently renamed private Facebook Group, Celebrate Life After 50. This is a great compliment to my post yesterday, Choosing to Blossom After 50. Enjoy!

As we live most of our lives on autopilot rushing here and there never really thinking about how this all happens. It’s just life, after all.

The alarm goes off and we begin. We shower never really taking the time to be present with the water caressing and cleaning our bodies. Or noticing the smell of the soap or looking at the bubbles in our hands. We are too busy thinking about the day, we are already at work in our minds.

Next are the children, spouse, or other family members. We walk into their rooms and wake them up. Sometimes with gentle strokes but other times with a quick command. Breakfast is made and out the door we go.

In the car, buckled up then we’re in drive mode. Maybe we drop the children or grandchildren off. And then, what seems moments later, we are at work never knowing or thinking about how we got there.

All these routines make up our everyday life, yet we often overlook their significance until we experience something different or step outside our usual patterns.

Phone calls, emails, employee & client interactions, then the day is done. Kids, spouse, dinner, bed, and then it begins all over again. With life on autopilot, how then do we wander or wonder? How then do we “go off the beaten path”?

WHY GO OFF THE BEATEN PATH?

Doing the same activities, going to the same places, and meeting the same people has some familiarity to it. We know what to expect. But what does that get us as far as personal growth, understanding the world around us, or nurturing our soul?

I’ll tell you in two words – absolutely nothing.

Then the day comes when the kids are grown and gone and we are left wondering where our life went or hating the one we have. Some of us go into confusion, some depression, worry or anxiety. How do you stop this vicious cycle?

Making a habit of “going off the beaten path” will help you to transition. To being an empty nester, the later years or in retirement. It takes being present to notice how quickly you go on autopilot. But it is in the noticing where the magic begins to happen.

By practicing daily some kind of “going off the beaten path” you will be faced with all kinds of feelings. Fear of the unknown, fear of looking stupid or embarrassed. Fear of getting lost, excitement, anxiety, or any other of the other crazy thoughts we make up in our heads.

Yet by taking the road less traveled, by doing something or going somewhere different you will begin to see the world through a different lens. If you come from a place of wonder instead of doubt then the sound of the birds chirping. Or the smell of the flowers or the taste of a new cuisine will begin to fill your soul with gratitude as you yearn for more. Creating a bucket list of new places to visit or experiences to try can inspire you to seek out meaningful adventures, especially after 50.

New activities and environments not only foster personal growth, but also stimulate cognitive function by engaging your brain with fresh experiences, cultures, and learning opportunities.

YOUR SOUL WILL YEARN FOR MORE PERSONAL GROWTH

“Going off the beaten path” does not necessarily mean leaving the country. Although, that is a lot easier than you think. Or even leaving your city or town. “Going off the beaten path” can be as simple as discovering and experiencing something new in your neighborhood.

My husband and I travel often, sometimes for long distances and other times not. Recently we traveled by car four hours northeast of Warsaw, where we currently reside.

We heard of a cheese festival in one of the charming towns in the region and decided to make an overnight stay out of it. I booked a room on Airbnb in what looked like a lovely, quiet manor home in the country.

For those traveling after 50, there are many holiday destinations that cater to the interests and needs of travelers over 50, making it easier to find memorable and suitable places to visit.

We often travel the side roads instead of any highways, just to get a lay of the land and see how others live. This trip was no different. The countryside was breathtaking, all a bloom with color and sound. This approach is a great example of slow travel, allowing us to enjoy a more relaxed pace and immerse ourselves in the local culture and scenery.

This region of Poland is called the “lungs of Europe” and does not allow the use of pesticides. A large number of storks live here. These big graceful creatures build a home for life, coming back to the same nest year after year with their spouse. They mate for life, or at least they travel with the same partner year after year.

TYPES OF TRAVEL THAT INSPIRE AFTER 50

Travel after 50 opens up a world of possibilities, each offering its own unique joys and opportunities for self-discovery. For many, joining group tours is a fantastic way to explore new destinations while enjoying the camaraderie of like-minded travelers. These trips often focus on shared interests—whether it’s art, history, food, or outdoor adventures—making it easy to form connections and lasting friendships along the way.

If you crave relaxation and a touch of luxury, cruise trips might be your perfect match. Imagine unpacking just once and waking up each day in a new, breathtaking port, all while enjoying first-class amenities and a more relaxed pace. Cruises are a wonderful way to see the world without sacrificing comfort, and they offer plenty of opportunities to socialize or simply unwind.

For those seeking renewal of both body and mind, wellness retreats are an inspiring choice. These trips are designed to nurture your physical and mental health, often set in tranquil locations that encourage self-reflection and personal growth. Whether you’re practicing yoga at sunrise, indulging in spa treatments, or participating in wellness programs, you’ll return home feeling refreshed and invigorated.

No matter your interests or travel style, there’s a trip out there that can inspire you to embrace new experiences and savor the joys of going off the beaten path after 50.

A LITTLE GETAWAY TO HIDDEN GEMS OFF THE BEATEN PATH

As we arrived in the small town where we would spend the next few nights, the directions told us to take a turn down a dirt road. I am always apprehensive about dirt roads, especially when you can’t see the end. My husband and I looked at each other and we forged ahead….slowly.

The pastures were filled with grazing cows, barking dogs, flowers everywhere, and the smell of hay. Soon, we came upon a beautiful fenced-in home and realized this was home for the next few nights. We breathed a sigh of relief and laughed.

We were welcomed by the dogs barking at the strangers that have just arrived. The owner of the property promptly greeted us, making us feel instantly part of a welcoming community that embraces visitors. Much to our surprise, we had stumbled upon a sustainable, organic, working farm called an AgroTurystyka. AgroTurystyka is a kind of rural tourism that Poland is littered with. During your stay, you may be asked to do some farm chores, or maybe just relax. The meals served are homemade and generally from the offerings of the garden or the animals.

This farm offered cows, goats, sheep, rabbits, chickens, turkeys, grouse, ducks, and dogs. The garden and fruit trees lined the property and most of which were in bloom. There was a quiet hum as all the animals seemed to know their part and everyone was in harmony. Participating in daily farm life and chores provides immersive experiences, allowing travelers to connect deeply with the local way of life. It is always a remarkable feeling for me.

THE MAGIC OF CULTURAL IMMERSION

There’s something truly magical about stepping off the beaten path and immersing yourself in a new culture. For travelers over 50, this kind of adventure offers a fantastic way to experience the world in all its vibrant diversity. Picture yourself wandering the charming streets of a small town, sampling fresh seafood at a bustling market, or joining in the festivities of a local celebration. These moments of cultural immersion allow you to connect deeply with local communities and discover hidden gems that most tourists miss.

Taking language classes can open doors to even richer experiences, helping you communicate with friendly locals and gain a deeper appreciation for their customs and traditions. Whether you’re exploring stunning beaches along a quiet coastline, hiking through lush forests, or simply people watching in a lively square, every encounter becomes an opportunity to learn and grow.

By embracing the world with curiosity and an open heart, you’ll find that cultural immersion is not just a way to see new places—it’s a fantastic way to create lasting memories and truly understand the beauty of our shared humanity.

STAYING ACTIVE AND HEALTHY ON YOUR JOURNEY

Traveling after 50 is the perfect time to prioritize your physical and mental health while exploring the world at your own pace. Road trips offer the freedom to set a relaxed pace, allowing you to stop whenever inspiration strikes and soak in breathtaking landscapes along the way. If you enjoy hiking or biking, you’ll find countless trails and scenic routes that invite you to stay active and connect with nature.

For those who prefer a more leisurely approach, river cruises provide a serene and scenic way to visit multiple destinations without the rush. Many luxury resorts now offer specialized wellness programs tailored to mature travelers, from gentle fitness classes to spa treatments and nutritious cuisine—all designed to support your well-being.

By choosing trips that align with your interests and comfort level, you can ensure that every journey is both enjoyable and beneficial for your overall health. Remember, staying active and caring for your well-being is one of the many benefits of embracing travel after 50.

MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND FORMING CONNECTIONS

One of the greatest joys of travel is the opportunity to meet new people and form meaningful connections. Group tours and cruise trips are ideal for those who enjoy sharing experiences with like-minded travelers, often leading to lasting friendships that continue long after the trip ends. The sense of community found on these journeys can be especially rewarding, providing support and companionship as you explore new destinations together.

Traveling solo can also be a fantastic way to connect with others. Staying in charming villages or guesthouses often means you’ll be welcomed by local communities eager to share their stories and traditions. Whether you’re joining a cooking class, participating in a guided tour, or simply striking up a conversation with a fellow traveler, every encounter is a chance to broaden your horizons and enrich your journey.

By remaining open to new experiences and embracing the welcoming spirit of the places you visit, you’ll discover that the world is full of friendly faces and opportunities for connection—no matter where your travels take you.

OVERCOMING FEARS AND ANXIETIES ABOUT THE UNKNOWN

It’s natural to feel a bit apprehensive about venturing into the unknown, especially when traveling after 50. The good news is, there are many ways to ease those worries and step confidently outside your comfort zone. Traveling with a group can provide a reassuring sense of security, as you’ll have the support of both guides and fellow travelers. This can make exploring unfamiliar destinations feel much more manageable.

Investing in travel insurance is another smart step, offering peace of mind in case of unexpected events. Careful planning and researching your dream destination ahead of time can also help reduce anxiety, giving you a sense of control and preparedness.

Remember, every small step you take beyond your comfort zone builds self-confidence and opens the door to new adventures. By embracing the unknown with curiosity and courage, you’ll discover that the world is full of unforgettable experiences just waiting to be explored.

A BEAUTIFUL AND SIMPLE LIFE THROUGH SLOW TRAVEL

The home and guest quarters were beautifully decorated and we could roam the property and make ourselves at home. And yes, the owner spoke English. However, he did mention that if I stayed with him for a week on the farm I would be fluent. I winked (as he was quite handsome) and thought maybe that would be the ticket to improving my Polish.

Later that day, as the sun was about to set, we joined the farm worker as he went to the fields. First to gather the sheep to bring them into the barn for the evening. Followed by the goats and then the cows.

It was funny, these animals were waiting at the gate for him, like they knew their role. How could they tell time? They started making noise as soon as they saw him, almost like they were greeting him. How pleasant I thought.

The meals served were gifts of the farm. The table had freshly cut flowers. The cow offered her milk and we had the most delicate and creamy butter ever experienced. It was bright yellow as the butter was made of full fat. Oh my, it was delicious. I could have slathered it all over my body. Sharing these traditional meals was a wonderful way to experience the local culture, connecting us to the customs and daily life of the region.

The cheeses were offerings from the cows, sheep and goats. I never knew I liked goat cheese until this time. The eggs were given from the chickens and the rabbits offered their freshly made pate.

The garden supplied us with an endless offering of cucumbers and tomatoes. It was a feast for the eyes as well as our stomachs.

IMAGINE WHAT WE LOSE WHEN WE STICK TO KNOWN PATHS

I could have stayed forever. It made me laugh remembering my apprehension as we drove down the dirt road for the very first time. If I/we had not remained present in the experience we just might have turned around and canceled our stay. I/we could have gotten all worked up about the listing when there was no mention of a dirt road (why should that matter anyway)?  Or I/we could have been ridden with anxiety as we traversed down this windy, bumpy road.

Looking back, the journey turned out to be an unforgettable experience that left a lasting impact on me. Traveling off the beaten path not only brought new adventures but also gave me the chance to make new friends along the way.

If you find any of this resonating with you about fears, anxiety or self-doubt, I encourage you to begin your journey “going off the beaten path”. You never know who you might meet or what you might experience.

 

Hi! I’m Merry and I specialize in igniting human potential.

We all have dreams, and it’s my professional passion to help you achieve the life you’re dreaming of. Through vision boarding, 1:1 coaching, or my unique in-depth life envisioning courses, we’ll get you started on your brave new second act in life. Find me at BravingMidlife.com

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