My Ultimate Concierge explained to me long ago that nothing good happens by accident. He was right on target. Read on for our serendipitous happening!
Elsewhere is a life based on deliberate fears. It stops us from wanting to meet new people, explore new places, and gather new things. The climate in Elsewhere has forced me to push myself.
The push ignites in my mind when I begin to feel uncomfortable about my inaction. What I mean by this is that I begin to feel encumbered by my passivity. It starts with a queasy feeling in my stomach and builds. It is with me constantly, affecting my sanity ( a little overdramatic but that is me!) but you get my gist.
Elsewhere has transformed my lifestyle over the past two years. I have allowed its greyness to cloud my vision. It robs me of my love of life and of the beauty of all that is spontaneous. It has invaded my personal territory and caused my life to fill up with stress instead of an aura of peace.
As I leave my cocoon of grey, I have concluded that I am a woman 50 + who has the power to transform anything into whatever I want. And so are you, dear readers of mine. It is a painful trip but once you ‘catch’ the desired bug and fly with it there is nothing to stop you except … you!
The metamorphosis I am experiencing began with the discovery of this New Year’s theme.
My first big task involves self-care. A planned trip spurred me into reclaiming my forgotten wardrobe and neglected body. They were taxing projects at the start but proved so worthwhile. My clothes are in order and I am reclaiming my body.
WE NEED PEOPLE
Over the past few years, I have missed having my normal serendipitous moments and life-changing encounters. They’re missing because these happen when you are with people! Oh how I have missed people, all types of people. Without people, there is limited conversation, limited experiences, and limited community.
I am fortunate to have my Ultimate Concierge and my pooch America. Also, I have text messages and emails, you at HoneyGood.com, and my private Facebook group, GRANDwomen. This group of women is trending towards 3,000 in number! The conversations there warm my heart. I also have exceptional women and my co-workers, Elena, Susan, Leigh, Jules, Michelle, and Rebekah and Susan, my health gurus. They all provide me with daily doses of companionship. With these wonderful people in my life, I am not lonely. Are you?
But ah I missed those serendipitous and normal meet-ups with others. Personally, I find it very hard to lead a peaceful life without a constant and continuous flow of different types of experiences. It was time to raise a smile on my face in my benign life.
The Tailor entered my life serendipitously! The need for alterations on some of my clothing in my organized closet prompted me to walk across the street from my condo-in-the-sky to a little shop. A new tailor had just taken ownership of it. My Ultimate Concierge had visited him three times. So when I walked in and introduced myself, he said in his broken tongue, “You are Sheldon Good’s wife?”
We chatted and it was decided he would come to our condo on Sunday to do pinnings. On my short walk home I decided to serve brunch out of courtesy.
Setting a lovely table was such a pleasing experience! It had been too long since I had last entertained, something I love to do, and even for one person. I felt joy and peace as I set my table.
The Tailor arrived at noon and we sat down to brunch. Within five minutes there was spontaneous energy flowing through the conversations. Or should I say his conversation.
AMAZING TALES FROM THE TAILOR
My new tailor, my newest friend, knows the Pope! He speaks Yiddish with him and designs and makes some of his Holiness’ clothes! On one trip to Rome, he lived in the Vatican for three weeks! The Catholic Pope and the Jewish Tailor have become fast friends!
And that is not all. He also makes Rod Blagojevich’s (the former governor of Illinois) suits. Our tailor informed us that Blagojevich will be interviewed by Tucker Carlson next week on Fox News.
My newest friend is not braggadocious. He tells his interesting stories in a charming fashion with no pretense.
I asked him, “How did the Pope learn to speak Yiddish?” He answered that the Pope grew up next door to a Jewish family who spoke Yiddish! They had a son and the two young boys were best friends. End of story.
When the Pope corresponds with the Tailor he signs his letter, Sholom.
Our dining room was filled with laughter and stories. Some that came out of the mouth of the Tailor. And some from my husband who was the realtor for the Catholic Church in Chicago. The occasion was so joyful I awoke from the dead!
For the first time in months, I felt a positive energy rising through my veins instead of the dreaded lethargy.
The experience and the stories opened my eyes.
Ultimately, I had to consider a new project so I could reenter the world of community and conversation. I know a large part of self-care is mingling with old friends and new ones alike. It is sharing old and amusing experiences as well as new and enlightening ones.
Because of the Tailor, I have my new planned projects in place. He opened up my eyes to living once again outside the box. He awakened in me the want to wonder again.
Elsewhere, a worldwide dysfunctional political system, almost succeeded in bringing me to my knees. One man, a tailor, gave me a triple dose of enthusiasm that made me want to live again!
I hope this story gives you a triple dose of enthusiasm to jump-start your life. Please don’t let fear stop you from living your life and exploring your wonders. You are a woman 50+. It is your turn to bloom. When you bloom your family will bloom and so will others around you.
Elsewhere’s Theme for 2022: Fear = Control
My theme for 2022: Peace
What is your theme?
How can you utilize your theme for 2022 with my message to ‘never fear’ and ‘be in control, to benefit the you in you?
When you have your answer you will feel an adrenaline rush! I am anxious to hear from you.
Life does have an element of surprise. Look for serendipity in the most unlikely of places.