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An organized closet profoundly affects one’s ability to have an organized mind. Trust me, I now know. And what better time to organize your space (and mind) than at the start of spring!

Being a creative person, I needed the guidance of other women to help me simplify and organize a part of my life.

I pride myself on being a good picker of people, places, and things! Therefore, when I decided to redo my closet, I immediately knew two women who could assist me in revolutionizing and organizing some of my closets — Marie Kondo and my mother, Elaine Lang. As I often express in my musings, women need women.

We all know that after age 50, we have the time to organize our closets. I have found that organizing, though challenging, is worthwhile.

Clearing away clutter and organizing what you love feels like a personal cleansing. My organized closets spark joy in me.

MARIE KONDO — MY ORGANIZATION GURU FOR PEACE OF MIND

Allow me to introduce you, if you have not had the pleasure, to Marie Kondo, the author of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. Marie is beyond an ordinary organized woman — she is perfection to a tee. If you follow her advice on tidying and discarding the unnecessary, even your files will have style!

You will no longer feel scattered when you follow her directions to create an organized closet. I found it amazing that when I tidied up my wardrobe, my thoughts tidied up, too. A sense of peace and pride cascades over me, like a Hawaiian waterfall, when I walk into my Marie Kondo organized closet. I instantly feel relaxed in my organized space, as if the calm order brings a gentle tranquility to my mind.

Marie’s words, “Why spend your money on an organizer? They don’t organize you; they reorganize what you have!” Her philosophy is to discard possessions that do not reflect your passion; that do not spark joy. Her approach serves as a constant reminding influence to focus on what truly brings joy and peace into your life.

If you are truly interested in organizing your closet — organize your mind by buying her book. You will thank me. It is a keeper. Buy it for gifts, too. I do.

Marie Kondo

If you’ve ever longed for a sense of inner peace in your home and life, Marie Kondo is a name you need to know. As a world-renowned organizing consultant and author, Marie has inspired millions to find peace and joy through her signature KonMari Method. Her philosophy is simple yet profound: only keep items that truly spark joy, and let go of the rest. By focusing on what brings happiness, you create a living space that radiates peace and allows you to focus on what matters most in life. The beauty of Marie’s approach is that it’s not just about tidying up your home—it’s about achieving a deeper sense of peace and clarity in your daily life. When you surround yourself with things that bring you joy, you naturally find peace within, and your mind becomes free to pursue what you love. Marie Kondo’s wisdom is a gentle reminder that by letting go of the unnecessary, we make room for greater joy, focus, and peace in every aspect of our lives.

ELAINE LANG – MY MOTHER – STYLISH INSPIRATION

My mother had an elegant style based on simplicity and a defined sense of organization. Her approach to organization was deeply personal, reflecting her unique way of creating peace of mind and influencing my own sense of style.

Growing up, I noticed her closet was small but organized, without the help of Marie Kondo! I believe my mom’s mind was mathematical. 2+2 is always 4. Maybe that was why everything about her was organized; her closet and her sense of style.

Her palette of colors was also small but carefully chosen. Her fabrics and accessories were stunning. One accessory could change her outfit from casual to elegant, from daytime to evening. Consider adding more accessories to your collection and pairing down your choices of colors in your wardrobe.

THE ART OF ‘LESS IS MORE’ FOR INNER PEACE

I learned the art of ‘less is more’ from observing my mother. In her, I saw the whole of elegance.

My eyes were never assaulted by a jacket in navy clashing with a multicolored scarf wrapped around shoulders, a pair of white slacks, a red blouse, and an armload of cluttered bracelets! Marie would have a panic attack and say, “Take it off, take it off! How utterly exhausting!”

An exhausted and disorganized woman definitely does not exhibit organization or style.

My mother’s style was quiet, uncluttered. It looked easy. When she walked into any room, she turned heads. She was still a knockout in her wheelchair; everything about her outer look had a sense of discipline. Her inner look was something else. A perfect combination.

Embracing the ‘less is more’ philosophy is an important part of achieving peace of mind and emotional well-being. My mother created an all-encompassing outer look; she preferred to exhibit a palette of outerwear in the same color tones. She brought her personality into ‘her look’ with her inner style of warmth and gaiety, red lipstick, and a beautiful smile.

In the evening, she would wear a simple dress of fine fabric and accessories that set a mood. Her style set her apart from the crowd because her outerwear gave the appearance of an organized and self-assured woman. She was both to her last day.

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Achieving Peace Through Organization

There’s a special kind of tranquility that comes from walking into a well-organized space. Achieving peace through organization isn’t just about having tidy shelves or color-coded closets—it’s about creating an environment that nurtures your mental health and inner calm. When you declutter and organize your surroundings, you’re not just clearing physical space; you’re also making room for mind peace and reducing the stress and anxiety that clutter can bring. Simple organizational habits, like grouping similar items together or giving everything a designated place, can help you feel more in control of your environment and your emotions. This sense of control is essential for your overall health and well-being. Pairing organization with self care practices—like regular exercise, meditation, or even a few moments of deep breathing—can further enhance your sense of tranquility. Remember, a peaceful home supports a peaceful mind, and taking small steps to organize your space is a powerful act of self-care that benefits both your physical and mental health.

TWO FUNNY VIGNETTES

Marie’s book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, should be a staple in your library. Her philosophy is that organization creates an organized mind. Her theory: When you lose passion for an object, toss it! Marie’s opinion on organization is forever in my thoughts, even outside our home!

Once I was in an eyeglass shop to pick up my Ultimate Concierge’s new glasses. The woman asked, “Would you like to keep the old glass from your last prescription?”

I said, “Have you heard of Marie Kondo?”

She looked surprised and then replied with a big laugh, “Of course. Who hasn’t?” Without a word, she tossed the old glasses into the wastebasket. We both laughed while my Ultimate Concierge looked puzzled.

Tidying the Marie Kondo way is the perfect example of intertwining organization with style.

On another occasion, my Ultimate Concierge and I drove to the print shop to have some of our photos reframed. The man asked if we wanted to keep the old frames. Again Marie came to my mind! “Have you heard of Marie Kondo?”

“Yes, of course!” I was shocked he knew of her. When he held up an old frame and tossed it we laughed. My Ultimate Concierge again looked puzzled.

These stories are examples of how Marie Kondo’s philosophy can be applied in everyday situations to achieve peace of mind.

 

 

Finding Peace in a Busy World

In today’s fast-paced world, finding peace can sometimes feel like searching for a quiet moment in the middle of a bustling city. But achieving peace is possible, even when life feels overwhelming. The first step is to pause and reflect on what truly matters to you. By setting boundaries and prioritizing self care, you can create space for calm and joy, even amidst the chaos. Remember, peace isn’t something you find outside yourself—it’s an essential feeling that comes from within, cultivated through hard work, self-compassion, and a willingness to let go of negative thoughts and emotions. Spending time in nature, practicing mindfulness, or simply enjoying a favorite activity can help ease anxiety and depression, bringing a sense of joy and balance back into your life. It’s important to care for both your physical and emotional health, and to remind yourself that finding peace is a journey, not a destination. With dedication and a focus on what brings you happiness, you can achieve greater peace and resilience, no matter how busy life gets.

ORGANIZING OTHER CLOSETS

With my Marie Kondo attitude, I became consumed with organizing other closets, drawers, clothing, files, and memories throughout our condo! It has taken over a year of tidying (discarding), and I am not done yet.

Every time I open the closet doors of my small organized wardrobe closet, I feel so peaceful, like the sensation of a cool wave cascading over me. I am physically and emotionally at peace and I am proud of my due diligence. Organizing my space has also helped me cope with stress and emotional challenges, contributing greatly to my peace of mind. After tidying up, I am glad I feel passionate about everything I have. My newly organized closet helps organize my thoughts while I dress in a style that now takes half the time.

Ultimately, I continued my quest using Marie’s theory that an organized closet creates an organized mind. I redid our storage room and turned a large kitchen closet into an entertainment center!

THE IMPORTANCE OF ORGANIZATION

When you understand the meaning and see the results of, less is more, you will appreciate that having ‘less’ is highly beneficial, especially for your sanity! When you declutter your closets, you unclutter your mind. Your stress level lessens. Everything about your inner beauty begins to shine because you smile more often. Achieving this state of organization and peace of mind takes consistent effort and dedication. This is a style for every woman after 50.

Unlike my mom and Marie, I have a creative mind. I am organized with a flair, so to speak. I needed both of these women to get me where I knew I wanted to be … organized! Now my comfort level has been defined to perfection.

Overcoming Negative Thoughts While Decluttering

Decluttering isn’t just a physical task—it’s an emotional journey, too. As you sort through your belongings, you may find yourself facing a wave of emotions: nostalgia, sadness, anger, or even anxiety. It’s completely normal to feel this way, but it’s important to approach these moments with kindness and compassion for yourself. Instead of letting negative thoughts take over, try to see the process from a different perspective. Remind yourself that letting go of items that no longer serve you is an act of self-care and a step toward a more peaceful, organized life. Focus on the joy and sense of freedom that comes from creating a space that truly reflects who you are today. If you feel overwhelmed, reach out to loved ones for support, or take a break to relax and reset your mind. Practicing relaxation techniques, like deep breathing or meditation, can help ease stress and anxiety during the process. Remember, overcoming negative thoughts is an essential part of decluttering, and with a little compassion and a positive focus, you’ll find peace and joy in the journey toward a more organized and tranquil home.

SELF-CARE, MINDSET, AND MENTAL HEALTH

Self-care is an act of self-respect. The feeling of being ‘rung out’ because you are disorganized is no way to live life. You have the time to organize now that you are a woman after 50. Organizing your space can help you manage overwhelming feelings, acknowledge your emotions, and promote emotional well-being. Don’t dream. Do.

In order to begin any new project, a change in your mindset must be made. If you have time to go on Facebook (join my private group) or Instagram (follow along and say hi!), you have time to tidy up your closets and organize your mind. That is style.

YOUR ORGANIZATION PLAN

1. Start getting organized by creating a plan (download my FREE goal-reaching e-workbook!). That is the first step.
2. Give yourself a time limit. A month, a year to achieve what you desire.
3. Buy Marie Kondo’s book on Amazon. She will help you decide which elements to toss and how to discover what you want to keep. As I wrote above, her book will change your style of living. You will learn how to declutter, delete, cancel, recycle, unsubscribe and breathe. I call this change in my life the art of simplification. I’ve even learned to “delete” friendships in my life that aren’t serving either party.
4. The more time you have to care for your immediate surroundings, the more content you will feel. Organization provides time.
5. Discarding unnecessary possessions in your closet and throughout your home will allow you time to be curious and grow.
6. Shedding unnecessary objects will give you the freedom to do what you need to do.
7. Organizing your space and life helps you feel more prepared and optimistic about the future, making it easier to maintain lasting peace of mind.
8. Your emotional and physical health will benefit from an organized closet. Trust me, I know the feeling of joy and relief that having an organized closet has brought me.
9. The embodiment of style is simplicity. A day with zero organization is havoc, not simplicity. A closet filled with too much is just clutter for every woman after 50.

MY NEXT ORGANIZATION PROJECT

Once I completed organizing two closets and a storage room, I was on a roll. Something I’ve come to realize is that I love being organized. It fills me with a feeling of accomplishment. I am not as stressed. Nothing is hidden any longer, so I see what I have. I am more disciplined, and that gives me a sense of fulfillment.

I am still in the process of tidying up! Discarding things that no longer bring me passion. This is an ongoing process that brings me joy, and I know that eventually it will lead to even greater peace of mind and fulfillment. That is what counts. Never a dull moment. La De Da.

Have you attempted to complete a major organization project? How did it make you feel? Please share your story in the comments!

 

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