Do you take the road less traveled?

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

This quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson really struck a chord deep within my soul. Not only because I am a world traveler along with my Ultimate Concierge but also because I am a risk-taker and a leader.

There is something about taking the “road less traveled” that has always motivated me in my life. Especially when I take a path that has no trail and I must create my own. Creating www.honeygood.com and a team of wonderful people and support behind me has been no easy feat. But, you must start from a small idea and become the trailblazer. The beginning of any journey or decision-making process is often the most daunting, yet it is where opportunity and growth truly start. Don’t you agree?

Understanding the Less Traveled Path

When we think about the idea of the “road less traveled,” it’s impossible not to recall the timeless words of Robert Frost in his beloved poem, “The Road Not Taken.” The poem opens with the evocative image: “Two roads diverged in a yellow wood.” Here, Frost’s traveler stands at a literal and metaphorical crossroads, faced with a choice that will shape the course of his journey. Both roads, described as “grassy and wanted wear,” seem equally inviting, yet the traveler ultimately chooses the less traveled path—a decision that, as the final line tells us, “has made all the difference.”

Frost’s poem is more than just a reflection on a walk in the woods; it’s a meditation on the choices we make in life. The “less traveled path” is a powerful metaphor for forging your own way, even when it means stepping away from the well-worn trails that most people follow. It’s about daring to be different, to trust your instincts, and to embrace the unknown. As Frost wrote, the roads diverged, and the traveler could not travel both—just as in life, we must make decisions without knowing exactly where they will lead.

The beauty of the poem lies in its ambiguity. The “right path” isn’t always clear, and sometimes both options seem equally “fair” and “wanted wear.” Yet, by choosing the road less traveled, the traveler claims a unique journey, one that is his own. The poem’s final line—“I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference”—reminds us that our choices, big or small, shape our lives in ways we may only understand “somewhere ages and ages hence.”

This idea has resonated far beyond the world of poetry. You’ll find Frost’s words on coffee mugs, posters, and in countless conversations about life’s turning points. But the true meaning of the less traveled path goes deeper than a simple inspirational quote. It’s about the courage to step into the unknown, to walk a path that may be “bent in the undergrowth” and not yet “trodden black” by the steps of others. It’s about accepting that, while we may look back with a “sigh” and wonder what might have been, the act of choosing—of living intentionally—gives our journey its unique meaning.

In every life, there are moments when “roads diverged,” and we must decide which way to go. The less traveled path may not always be the easiest, but it is often the one that leads to growth, discovery, and a sense of fulfillment. Whether you’re making a major life decision or simply choosing a new direction for your day, remember that, as Frost wrote, it is the willingness to take the road less traveled that can make all the difference.

So, darling, as you stand at your own crossroads—whether in a yellow wood or in the quiet moments of your daily life—know that the path you choose is yours alone. Embrace the wonder, the uncertainty, and the possibility that comes with forging your own way. For in the end, it is the journey, and the choices we make along the way, that truly define our lives.

You Can Do It

My sweet readers, you do not have to be an entrepreneur to be a trailblazer. You can make your own path in an area of your life. Choosing a new direction is your answer to the crossroads you face, allowing you to walk a path that aligns with your own values and aspirations. You may even be thinking that it is too late to go where plans aren’t laid out for you, but I am here to tell you that it is never too late to forge a new path for yourself or take risks. At any age, darlings, we can shift gears and find a new way of going about our lives!

If this seems impossible, if it is too much to think about, that is ok. Trailblazing does not have to be grand or long-term, it can be something as small as starting your day ten minutes earlier or going on a new walking route with your dog.

You Can Start Small

Think of it this way, darling…if I take my pooch America for a walk and I choose the same path every day, I might be missing out on what another street has to offer.

In your mind’s eye, bring forth the image of you going for your daily walk and turning right instead of left. Maybe that feels uncomfortable or maybe it doesn’t, but what could happen if you decide to go the other way? Maybe you will meet a new friend or maybe you will find a beautiful park you have never seen before. It might even mean you experience new scenery that invigorates the mind, body, and spirit. Anything splendid could happen my darlings, anything!

Going Against the Grain

Have you ever tried to change small things in your life and had pushback from those around you? Maybe your significant other or close friends?

If you feel unsupported in your daily dreams and imaginations, please understand that you are not alone. I know that I have had big ideas that some have thought were crazy or unrealistic, but I’ll tell you what my darlings, I did not let the opinions of others stop me from making the life I wanted. This doesn’t mean you should ignore the advice and wisdom around you, but this means that you should never let another person decide your own fate. You are the master and the creator of your life. Yet, even as you make independent choices, you may find yourself in an inner conflict, searching for rest and fulfillment that comes from following your true path.

Look deep inside yourself and decide if taking a new path is right and realistic for you. If it is, let yourself carve the way to your dreams. And, if you need extra support, the women of GRANDwomen with Moxie are here to help you when you may need a hug or words of love.

Have Courage In Yourself and Your Vision

Lastly, as we already know, choosing a new path will not be easy. No matter how big or how small, sometimes we are our own worst critics. One of the biggest problems we face when doing anything in our lives is our own negative self-talk. Society has taught us, especially us older women, that our worth is based on youth and beauty. This is not true. Our strength, love, and wisdom are potent and powerful. There is true power in intentional living and the resilience we show as we embrace our unique journeys. I believe women are leaders, and we all can achieve our goals and dreams no matter what our age.

When you hear that negative self-talk creep into your mind, gently remind yourself that you are strong. You are brave. You are full of courage and kindness. You can do anything you set your mind to.

Will there be limitations as you walk down the path untraveled? Of course. Can you overcome them? Certainly. How do I know? Because I believe in you.

Now, darling, it is up to you to believe in yourself. I know you can do it.

You Are Perfect As You Are

Remember, no matter where you are in your lives, no matter what you choose to do with the time that has been given to you, you are doing wonderfully as you are. Always know that you are doing the absolute best you can. We all are.

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