4 Simple Words That Will Change Your Relationships With Men After 50March 26, 2018
If you want an Alpha Man in your life – and most of my clients who are Alpha Women always tell me they do – what I’m going to share with you today is important information you’ll want to know and remember. I’ll give you a hint… it’s just four simple words.
How Four Simple Words Can Change Your Life
At work, my client, Elizabeth, is an Alpha Female.
She is very good at what she does and knows how to get a job done quickly and efficiently.
But in her private life, she is unable to flip the switch back to her feminine side.
What happens is that her Alpha characteristics, for example, telling men what to do and how to do it, started showing up in her dating life.
But ladies, nothing pushes a man away faster than a woman who sounds like his mother once did when she told him what to do in his teens!
I shared four simple words with Elizabeth that would change her life forever if she used them.
However, Elizabeth wasn’t yet ready to practice these four simple words in a dating situation. Instead, she decided to try them out with men at work, figuring she had nothing to lose.
She had a meeting scheduled with the CEO of a major corporation.
In the past, she’d have come into the meeting much like a bull in a china shop. She’d have pushed and pushed until he either relented and signed on the dotted line or he told her firmly, no way.
This time, Elizabeth decided she’d take a more feminine approach and use those four simple words, “I need your help,” to not only get his attention but to gain his cooperation.
Alpha men, whether for business or pleasure, want to make women feel safe and protected.
Most women compete with men, by giving orders and pushing, which makes it hard for a man to step up and meet their needs.
Instead, you want to trigger the hero response in him to make this happen.
Elizabeth consciously made a decision to wear softer, feminine business clothing to this meeting versus her usual black suit, which screamed alpha female. She took a deep breath and slowed herself down as she walked into the meeting.
She shook the CEO’s hand, and instead of shoving papers in his face, she triggered his hero response by using the four magic words… I need your help.
And she was astonished by what happened next…
He stepped up, and within 5 minutes, the deal was sealed.
They spent the next hour talking, and at the end of their meeting, he told her to call on him anytime and that he’d be happy to help her.
Elizabeth witnessed what every woman witnesses when she consciously flips the switch to her feminine side. Men begin stepping over themselves to help her.
You can have this in your life too.
Your feminine side is about giving less, learning to ask for help when you need it and allowing yourself to receive assistance from men with gratitude and appreciation.
When you do, men will feel like you get them and they’ll want to connect with you on that emotional level they crave with a woman.
I hope you’ll let us know how these four simple words change your life too.
About the Author
Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50’s dating. She’s the best-selling author of The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50 and her mission is to help as many women around the world as she can discover how to have fun dating and finding their Mr. Right after 50. To get your FREE Report, “5 Little Known Secrets To Find A Quality Man,” visit www.findaqualityman.com.
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