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Why You Should Consider Getting A Dog After 50

Darlings, I can confidently say that owning a dog after 50 has brought endless joy and companionship into my life! Not only do our furry friends bring unconditional love and affection, but they also offer numerous benefits for our physical and mental well-being!

Certain dog breeds are great companions for seniors. Breeds like the Maltese are considered the perfect companion for retirees due to their friendly and loyal nature. My pooch, America Good makes my heart sing! And, we make his little heart beat with joy! We fawn all over each other. For my sweet readers after 50 who have a pet, you know exactly what I mean. Our pooch America, a soft-coated Wheaten Terrier, loves both of us, but as my ultimate concierge says, “He expresses an attachment to you like nothing I have ever seen. When you come home his joyfulness sweeps through the apartment. He appreciates you. You are his mother and he looks at you with utter love and affection. He wants to talk to you, be with you every waking minute of the day.” I always respond to my ultimate concierge when he says the above, “ He loves you just as much, only different.” And, it is true. America knows my hubby guards and protects him.

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Introduction to Dog Ownership for Seniors

As we enter our senior years, many of us find ourselves with more free time and a yearning for companionship. Dog ownership can be a delightful way to fill this void, offering a sense of purpose and boundless joy. Senior dogs, in particular, can be wonderful companions for older adults. They are often already house-trained and have a more relaxed temperament, making them easier to manage. However, it’s important to consider the unique needs and challenges of dog ownership at an older age. Choosing the right dog breed, adopting an adult dog, and providing proper care and maintenance are crucial steps to ensure a happy and fulfilling relationship with your new furry friend. Darlings, let’s explore how bringing a dog into your life can enrich your golden years!

The story of how America became America

People often ask me the name of our 4-year-old Soft Coated Wheaten Terrier. I tell them, “His name is America!” They look a bit stunned and often smile while saying, “What a great name!” The truth is, the story of the naming of America happened quite by accident, and a great accident it was!

Love does not only touch the reasoning parts of our brain, it touches our emotions; especially the dreamy part: our hearts. It is there that my love for my Soft Coated Wheaten Terrier, America Good, lives. After all, it is our heart that houses love. I also love my Country and its patriotic American citizens. My pooch’s name comes from those great loves!

Walking in the Park

I named my dog America because of an unexpected conversation with a stranger. Taking America for his daily walk in the park led to this encounter. America and I were in the park when a woman approached me. She was curious about America’s breed. After I told her I asked her the name of her dog.

“My dog’s name is Payton” she said. “After Walter Payton?” I asked. “Yes,” she answered. “I had a dog, Patton,” I said. “After General Patton?” she inquired. “Yes, he was a male Doberman and that is the reason I named him General George Patton. Patton for short.” I quipped, laughing. “Oh! My husband would love that name,” she remarked. After the short exchange, we said our goodbyes. My nameless puppy and I happily went on our way with my mind whirling and twirling wondering what to name our pooch.

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Inspired by Our Conversation

I remember thinking to myself, “That woman and I each had a dog with an American hero’s name.” I liked that and asked myself, “Who made our country great?” I stopped dead in my tracks and began saying American hero names out loud, “Payton, Patton, Edison, Washington, Lincoln, Roosevelt, Jefferson, Twain, Ross, Hemmingway, Adams, Jobs.”

I suddenly had an idea and I smiled as I picked up my little nameless puppy and said to him with joy, “Every American made America beautiful and great. Your name will be America, named after every single American that helped make our country the greatest country in the world. Your full name will be America Good. I picked up my little guy, gave him a big kiss and hug, and said, “America, let’s hurry home and tell your daddy.”

Toasting to America

Darlings, I was so excited as I opened up the door to our apartment in the sky. I told Shelly, “I thought of a name I love, love, love for our new puppy! He will be known as America”. And then I related the story of how his name came to be. My ultimate concierge was taken aback and said, “America?” “Don’t you love it?!” I said.

My ultimate concierge was silent for the longest time. Then he smiled and said, “Well every night at dinner we raise our glass to toast our country and say, ‘God Bless America’ so I think the name America is perfect.” He laughed and laughed and smiled and smiled. And so did I as I said to our puppy, “I love you so much, America Good.”

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Dog Ownership: It’s Not Easy

I understand there are many reasons why a woman over 50 might hesitate to have a furry friend! In my mind, if you are toying with this idea, let me tell you why the addition of a dog will be worthwhile. And, worth your effort. Of course, if you get a puppy, you will have to muddle through the peeing, pooping, chewing, and misunderstood commands. You will have to climb out of bed in the early morning and walk the little darling. Most dogs are considered seniors at age seven, highlighting the differences in care requirements between high-energy and lower-energy breeds. Countless women, both those with or without careers, say the best advice they can give every woman after 50 is to own a pet. Why? Because, darlings, after 50 the pluses win, hands down!

Small dogs are often ideal choices for seniors due to their affectionate and low-maintenance nature. Size is one of the most important considerations when selecting a dog, particularly for individuals over 50. A smaller dog can be safer and easier to manage for older individuals who may face challenges with larger breeds.

Choosing the Right Dog Breed

With so many dog breeds to choose from, it can indeed be overwhelming to decide which one is right for you. As a senior, it’s essential to consider breeds that are well-suited for older adults. Breeds like the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, French Bulldogs, and Shih Tzus are often ideal choices. These breeds are typically smaller in size, have lower energy levels, and require less exercise, making them perfect for seniors with mobility issues. Additionally, breeds with short, smooth coats or double coats that require regular grooming may be more suitable for those who prefer to avoid high-maintenance grooming routines. It’s also important to consider factors such as life expectancy, training needs, and potential health issues when selecting a breed. By choosing the right breed, you can ensure a happy and healthy relationship with your new companion, making your senior years even more delightful.

Dogs Help Us Stay Active & Reduce Stress After 50

As we age, it’s important to stay active and engage in activities that promote physical and mental health! Certain dog breeds, like Miniature Schnauzers and Beagles, are suitable for individuals who lead a more active lifestyle. Owning a sweet pup provides the perfect opportunity to get outside, go for walks, and enjoy the fresh air and sunshine! I know a little light exercise helps boost my mood and energy, and it helps remind me why I love this city so much!

Owning a pooch can also provide social interaction and a sense of purpose, especially in our lonelier years. It’s not uncommon for women after 50 to feel isolated or lonely (whether due to grandchildren living afar, child estrangement, or even widowhood). But having a furry companion can provide a sense of friendship, belonging, and a reason to get up and out of the house each day! Dogs also make great listeners and offer endless love and support, making them the perfect confidant for any age. They’re quite therapeutic, aren’t they?

Darlings, if you’re feeling lonely – having a pup to get you walking regularly, boost your mood and limit your stress, and add some structure to your daily routine can be a game changer! Dogs like Beagles and Cavalier King Charles Spaniels enjoy long walks, making them excellent companions for both active and relaxed lifestyles. America Good has kept me young and vibrant, even on tougher days!

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Adopting an Old Dog

Adopting an adult dog can be a heartwarming way to bring a new companion into your life. Many local shelters have older dogs waiting for a loving home, and these dogs often make excellent pets for seniors. Adult dogs are usually already house-trained, and their personalities are well-established, making it easier to determine if they’re a good fit for your lifestyle. Additionally, adopting an older dog can be incredibly rewarding, as you’re giving a loving home to a dog in need. Shelter staff can help match you with a dog that suits your needs and lifestyle, and many shelters offer trial periods to ensure a smooth transition. By adopting an older dog, you can provide a loving home to a dog in need and enjoy the companionship and joy that comes with dog ownership. Darlings, consider opening your heart and home to an older dog – the love and gratitude you’ll receive in return are immeasurable.

Dogs Can Help Build Community After 50!

Another added bonus of dog ownership I’ve found is the opportunity to meet new people and make new friends! Would I have ever spoken to the woman in the park if I didn’t have America with me? What a lovely chance to get out and see the world and talk to new people! Whether it’s chatting with other dog owners at the park, joining a local dog-walking group, or having a topic to bond with new women about – owning a dog can open up new social opportunities and connections!

My America drips with unconditional love. His mannerisms make me laugh out loud with gusto when he talks to me in doggie talk. He keeps me in stitches with his cheerful, lighthearted personality. When we take our walks, he stops to say hello to every dog and then wants to follow them. In the last several months, I have met so many dog owners because of America that I have dubbed him, ‘The Happy Mayor of Pearson Street.’ If there were presidential dog elections, America would win because he is smart and good-natured. He brings out positive vibes in all he meets and greets.

Senior Dog Care and Maintenance

As a senior dog owner, it’s essential to consider the care and maintenance needs of your new companion. This includes providing regular grooming, exercise, and training, as well as ensuring your dog receives proper veterinary care. Senior dogs may require more frequent veterinary visits, and it’s crucial to stay on top of their health issues to ensure they live a long and healthy life. Additionally, seniors should consider factors such as mobility issues, health problems, and energy levels when caring for their dog. Regular walks, playtime, and socialization are also essential for maintaining your dog’s physical and mental health, and can help strengthen the bond between you and your companion. With the right care and attention, you can enjoy a wonderful and fulfilling relationship with your dog, creating lasting memories together. Darlings, the love and companionship of a senior dog can truly enrich your life, making every day a little brighter.

Dogs Teach Us To Slow Down!

Owning a dog is like raising a child, it really is. It is unconditional love. It is a wonderful feeling to be needed and to receive true love in return. Although I admit I am a frazzled and dazzled woman with very little time to spare… taking a long walk and smelling the roses, taking my time to boil fresh boneless and skinless chicken breasts, rice, cooked carrots and hard-boiled eggs for America slows me down. Taking the time to prepare nutritious food for America is a rewarding experience. Certain dog breeds are fairly active and can be a good match for individuals who enjoy a balance of activity and relaxation. I cannot explain how contented I become spending my time and caring for America.

Darlings, do yourself a favor and bring a pup into your life if you haven’t already! I’m so glad I have my America in my wisened years to keep me busy and give me love and company!

December 21, 2022

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  1. cristina barbina says:

    Cara Honey I rescued an abandoned dog two years ago, when she was about 7 years old and she is an angel someone put on my way.
    Few months ago I gave to my ex who is 80 the smallest and most adorable chihuahua ever. He is in love with her and take of her like if she was his little girl. So yes I agree with you totally. Love

    • Susan "Honey" Good says:

      Our dogs are ‘man’s best friend.’ Happy New Year, my dear pooch lover. Warmly, Honey