I’ve been a long-time lover of red lipstick, that didn’t change after I turned 50. I’ve never given much thought as to why. So…
I’ve pondered why a woman over 50 should wear red lipstick. Well, I’m here to tell you!
I’ve pondered why a woman over 50 should wear red lipstick. Well, I’m here to tell you!
Why do I wear red lipstick? I came to the conclusion that I like it! Simple as that. I love a courageous and knowing red heart. I adore Chinese red lacquered walls. I stop and admire red accessories and my Ultimate Concierge wears red-framed glasses. I just love the different shades of reds, and choosing the right colour can make a real difference for each individual.
To be fair to you, not all women love red lipstick or the color red. But, might it be fun to give the colour a try? Many women find experimenting with a new lip colour exciting or even transformative. It may take time to get used to and it may not be a good fit, but trying something new is always a good idea.
Experimentation may be difficult for you and red lipstick may be considered to be avant-garde, too unfamiliar. On the other side of the coin, it may be an added look for you because it is fresh, imaginative, creative and modern, and … new. Makeup trends often encourage women to try bold colours at any age.
Why do I love the color red? That is easy. Red is the warmest color on the color wheel. And I’m a warm woman who gets turned on to warm people, warm locations, and warm bubble baths.
If you’re still on the fence about sporting red lipstick after 50 when you’re done reading this, maybe you should read my post, How to Pull Off a Bold Red Lip After 50
WHY RED LIPSTICK AFTER 50?
Just try it, I promise you red lipstick on a woman over 50 will make her ooze confidence!
Just try it, I promise you red lipstick on a woman over 50 will make her ooze confidence! Many older women find that wearing a bold lip, such as red, can be both empowering and stylish.
Why do I feel alive wearing red lipstick? Because the color red is powerful and glamorous. An elegant woman wearing red lipstick is never invisible in a crowd!
Just a touch of red on my lips can change my mood. When I see my lips turn red, I come alive. Red lips can make me feel younger and more vibrant. I can be sitting at my dressing table with thoughts of all I have on my plate and I swear! The moment I put a dab of red on my lips I feel a positive surge of energy and … smile!
A woman who wears red lipstick appears to be an interesting and vital woman. She stands out in a crowd. Flattering shades of lip colour can enhance the natural beauty of older women. I am not downplaying you if you prefer light or no lipstick. One color does not fit all.
PREPARING YOUR LIPS FOR RED LIPSTICK AFTER 50
As we grow wiser and more fabulous, our lips—just like the rest of us—go through a few changes. You might notice your lips becoming a bit drier, or that your favorite red lipstick doesn’t glide on quite as smoothly as it once did. But don’t let that stop you from rocking a bold, bright red lip! With a little extra care and the right prep, you can wear red lipstick with confidence and make your lips look youthful and vibrant at any age.
1. Exfoliate for a Smooth CanvasStart by gently exfoliating your lips to remove any dry, flaky skin. You can use a soft toothbrush or a gentle lip scrub to buff away dead skin cells and reveal a smoother texture. This simple step helps your red lipstick go on evenly and prevents it from settling into fine lines.
2. Hydrate with Lip BalmNext, treat your lips to a nourishing lip balm. Look for formulas packed with Shea Butter, Vitamin E, or coconut oil to lock in moisture and keep your lips feeling soft and supple. Well-moisturized lips are the secret to a flawless, bright red lip that lasts all day.
3. Define Your Natural Lip LineTo keep your red lipstick looking crisp and prevent any bleeding or feathering, use a lip liner that matches your natural lip color or the shade of red you plan to wear. Carefully trace your natural lip line, paying special attention to the cupid’s bow and corners of your mouth. This step not only defines your lips but also helps your lipstick stay put.
4. Prime for PerfectionA good lip primer can work wonders, especially if you’re concerned about your lipstick settling into fine lines. Apply a thin layer of lip primer before your lipstick to smooth out the surface and help your lip color last longer. It’s a small step that makes a big difference!
5. Choose the Right Shade of RedFinding your perfect shade of red lipstick is all about embracing your unique beauty. If you have a cool skin tone or silver, grey, or white hair, try a blue-based red for a classic, flattering look. Warm skin tones and dark hair often look stunning in orange reds or brick shades. Don’t be afraid to experiment—sometimes the most beautiful red is the one you least expect!
6. Balance with Minimal Eye MakeupA bright red lip is a statement on its own, so keep your eye makeup soft and simple. A touch of mascara and a sweep of neutral eye shadow will let your lips take center stage, while a light layer of foundation and concealer will even out your skin tone for a polished finish.
By taking these extra steps, you’ll find that wearing red lipstick after 50 is not only possible—it’s positively empowering. Whether you love a bold, bright red or prefer a softer, more natural lip color, there’s a shade out there that will make you feel wonderful. So go ahead, use a lip brush, line your lips, and wear red with pride. The right shade of red lipstick can make you feel youthful, confident, and ready to take on the world—one beautiful smile at a time!
MY FAVORITE RED LIPSTICKS FOR WOMEN OVER 50
Why not experiment with color? Splurge and buy a tube of red lipstick. Here are my go-to brands and favorite colors. When experimenting, finding a great color, such as a true red or a flattering brown, can make a big difference. Certain lipstick shades suit women with similar colouring, so trying different finishes and tones can help you find your perfect match.
These three are my go-to red lipsticks after 50.
Guerlain # 21 (Cherry Red), Guerlain # 23 (Deep Cherry), Tom Ford Casablanca
Check out some of the gorgeous, refillable lipstick cases such as mine at Saks.
Some women prefer a matte lipstick color for a sophisticated look, while others love the shine of a gloss or lip gloss for a more youthful, plump appearance. Pairing the right blush with your lipstick color can also create a harmonious and polished appearance.
I sometimes soften my red lipstick with Tom Ford’s, Casablanca. It is one of my favorite staples. I know it is a Tom Ford customer’s favorite staple in their make-up routine because it has not been discontinued. I have been wearing this color for years. I never leave on a trip without a tube of Casablanca. It is a beautiful neutral with color.
RED (LIPSTICK) CHASES AWAY THE GREY
Red lipstick is a grand accessory! It is a statement. It has personality. Red lipstick can instantly brighten the face, especially for those with grey hair or silver hair, adding vibrancy and contrast that enhances your features.
I know women are afraid to wear red lipstick because they feel uncomfortable standing out in the crowd. Or they don’t want to bring attention to their wrinkles. There is nothing wrong with wrinkles. As your hair color changes over time—whether you embrace your natural hair color, transition to grey hair, or sport silver hair—certain lipstick shades, like bold reds or berries, can become even more flattering and help you stand out in a creative way.
Let’s face it, you can’t roll back the time, but you can roll in the good times!
There is nothing more telling about a woman’s style than her accessories. Red lipstick, in my opinion, is an accessory. Use your imagination, darling. Look what Chanel and Steve Jobs created. Your face is a palate. Be creative. Color your lips with red lipstick. As you continue to wear lipstick at any age, remember that the wrong shade can leave you looking washed out or pale, so it’s important to choose colors that complement your complexion and hair color.
RED IS ALWAYS IN STYLE
If you ask me, red lipstick is always in style! Just look back at the icons over the decades!
About the word style. Fashion is here today. Gone tomorrow. Your style is with you every day. It is who you are. Therefore, you own it. Red lipstick is ‘lush.’ It’s got style.
Look in your mirror. Try on a light lipstick. How do you feel? I imagine your vibes are relaxed. Now, try on a ‘lush’ red. I know your body suddenly feels alive. Take it a step further. Wear it in a crowd. Notice their reaction. Notice yours.
To sum it up, red lipstick is empowering, dear reader of mine. It is a psychological upper. It is not just for the young. Anyway, who wants to copy the young? Some worry that a bold red might make them look like Baby Jane, with all the drama and none of the subtlety, but with the right application and a bit of confidence, you can avoid any unflattering comparisons and truly make the look your own.
I think about my age as a passing thought, not a daily dose. This is why I am living a very adventurous lifestyle. And, red is anything but boring!
Do you love a lush, red lipstick? How does it make you feel? I’d love to hear your thoughts! Join the conversation in the comments below.
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Your so right Honey! Love Red Lipstick! My go to is Estée Lauder’s Unpredictable and Bobbi Brown’s Claret. Warm and wonderful brick Reds! Both make me feel empowered and Lively and enchanting! Always RED! Thanks Honey!
You are so welcome, Cheryl. I jotted your colors down. Thank you for the Brand and the color. Warmly, Honey
My signature lip color is fuschia. That cool, hot pink that shouts “I’m me”!!!! I think all ladies need MORE color in their lip dressings as they age. People often say I look “so healthy”…..and, I swear, it’s the hot pink lip, white teeth ( see your dentist for bleaching. It makes a world of difference.), and, ALWAYS, a smile. Lip dressing is required even if pulling weeds, doing aerobics, taking a walk to the mailbox, running errands, or date night with my man of 48 years. A smile is the basis for my style so I make sure it’s well dressed!!!!
I like the term Lip dressing. You and I think alike sister. Warmly, Honey
Always wear red and love it
Me, too…and love it!!! Warmly,Honey
How funny. I just ordered a red raincoat! We’re getting ready for a trip to Alaska and my predictable pink raincoat arrived but did not fit. Very disappointed but when doing the return I noticed it came in red so I asked my husband what he thought. He said why not, the pink one looked just like my old raincoat. So I ordered a larger size and got the red. It actually pairs really well with the rest of the items on my packing list. Maybe I need a new red lipstick too!
You absolutely do need a new RED lipstick to go with your new red raincoat. Go for it!!! And, have a great time. Warmly, Honey
I live RED lipstick! Makes me more glamorous .
And amorous!!!! Warmly, Honey
I started to wear a pretty shade of red a few years ago. Beginning of my 60s. It makes the world of difference in my look and how I feel.
Actually I start my makeup routine with putting the lipstick on first!
That is interesting that you put your lipstick on first. I will try that! Thank you so much. Warmly, Honey
I adore my red lipstick!
Have worn a similar shade since my 20s!
I am smiling! Ditto!! Warmly, Honey
I wear red lipstick every day and have done so since I was a teen. Nothing I ever try compares to my red lipsticks and now I think it’s my trademark. It was also my beautiful Mother’s trademark (lips and nails). I am 74 and I’ll never give up my red!!
I am with you!!!!!! Go RED!!!!!! Warmly, Honey