Truth be told, like all of you, I am thankful for everything!

I am thankful for my mistakes, my self-inflicted punishments, my surprise accomplishments, the joy in watching a sunrise, the stars in the sky, my ability to forgive, my love of nature and my curious mind, my lack of fear to test all waters and explore the unknown, my home, my love of art and beauty, my plants, my fierceness as an empowered and enlightened woman, my lack of jealousy and my joy for others, my treadmill, my optimism, my assistant, my personal shopper, my hairdresser, my admiration for women of all ages, Ernie, my concierge, S.Pellegrino water, the joy in giving back, my health, my body, my school experiences and education, my parents, my grandmothers, my aunts, my kids, my friends, my loved ones, and every person who has at one time or another touched me and made my heart sing, I am grateful.

I am also thankful for my five senses, especially my sense of hearing, which allows me to enjoy music, the voices of loved ones, and the sounds of nature. I feel incredibly lucky to have been born in a peaceful country, to have access to education, and to be able to experience all these blessings in my life.

As I reread the above paragraph, I did take note that I did not mention that I am thankful for material possessions. It is pleasure at the moment. My ultimate concierge worked hard which has allowed me to lead a lovely lifestyle but I would be happy with far less.

I’m most thankful for my ultimate concierge

Put to the test, I am most grateful that the stars were in alignment, yes I believe in fate, the day I met my ultimate concierge. The deep love I have for my guy is what I am most thankful for because, without love, the world does not go round and round. And, my world filled with his love for the past 30+ years has spun and spun through the best of times and the worst of times.

Sheldon F Good is the nicest person I know. He has earned without trying- my gratitude, my trust, my respect, and the deepest love I have ever felt for anyone. He is my protector, my teacher, my everything. He adores me and I adore him. This is what I am most thankful for – love.

On his birthday the first year of our marriage, I expressed my appreciation by writing a poem in his honor. It was early morning on a beautiful summer day when I sat down at my desk in our apartment in the sky and in ten minutes or less I wrote my feelings about him in a poem. The act of writing the poem was a heartfelt way to express my gratitude and the deep feeling I had for him. Sometimes, words alone can fall short in expressing such deep appreciation, but I hoped my poem would capture my emotions. I framed it in a Tiffany frame – his birthday present from me to him. The original poem still sits in its Tiffany frame in our den. To this day, he says it was his favorite birthday gift, and I will never forget the smile it brought to his face.

Shelly…

He’s Perfect He’s Exciting He’s Charming He’s Kind He’s Giving He’s Funny He’s Loving He’s Mine!

He’s Macho He’s Clever He’s Caring He’s Sharing He’s Thoughtful He’s Patient He’s Friendly He’s Daring

He’s Running He’s Talking He’s Doing He’s Reading He’s Working He’s Busy He’s Planning He’s Leading!

He’s Thinking He’s Moving He’s Golfping He’s Pacing He’s Dialing He’s Calling He’s Fiddling He’s Racing!

He’s Husband He’s Father He’s Papa He’s Son He’s Brother He’s Friend He’s CEO He’s Fun!

Life is never boring We’re always on the go Shelly, “Your my best friend” And the nicest person I know!

Happy 60th.

……. Suzi 6/4/93

How to catch love

To give and receive love is what makes life worth living. Looking forward to new opportunities for love and gratitude helps us grow and find meaning. Without the capacity to give and accept love, life is meaningless. Sometimes, we may feel overwhelmed by the support or kindness we receive, reminding us of the deep impact love can have. Acts of love can also be inspiring to others, encouraging them to share kindness as well. No one can live a charmed life without love, and appreciating the other side—seeing things from different perspectives—helps us overcome challenges and deepen our understanding.

Find positivity

I know there are multiple demands from others placed on us; some negative. This happens within our families, the workplace, our friendships, and in conversations with strangers and acquaintances such as waiters, clerks, doctors, lawyers, teachers, cab drivers, and a mirage of others. Finding positivity in these interactions can lead to greater happiness, as appreciating emotional well-being and life’s positive experiences helps us cultivate a more fulfilling life. Practicing generosity is also a powerful way to foster positivity in our relationships, as expressing heartfelt gratitude and recognizing acts of kindness strengthens our connections with others. This means that each of us has to look inside ourselves and work to create our own destiny and fill it with love. That is how you catch love.

Pursue positive people

You have to pursue people who support your feelings while disentangling yourself from those that bring ire. Building and maintaining positive relationships takes real effort, and it’s important to genuinely appreciate those who offer you support. You have to engage in groups that bring you joy and be willing to offer a helping hand to others as part of catching love. You have to leave a job because you don’t feel appreciated, you have to have a heart-to-heart with someone in your family, and you have to delete those people and things from your life that irritate, exasperate and feed your soul with negativity. You have the ability to reward yourself with… love. That is how one catches love.

Find lessons in your journey

Use your wisdom, and what you have learned as a woman over 50, and start where you are to get your life exactly where you want it to be. Remember, pain can be a powerful teacher, helping you grow stronger and build resilience along your journey. Approach your mistakes and pain with grace, showing yourself genuine humility and compassion as you learn and move forward. It takes wisdom and hard work but it is worth it to feel and give back… love. That is how you catch love, darling

Look within

If you are alone, you don’t have to be. It is up to you to reach the heights and find what type of love brings you bliss. You may need help. It is out there. You have to find it. Sometimes, looking within and saying a prayer can be a source of strength and comfort on your journey. Embracing thankfulness for yourself and your unique qualities is also important in the path to self-love. That is how you catch love.

Find true joy

It may be a person, it may be a pet, it may be a hobby, it may be a community in a group online, it may be reentering college, it may be travel, it may be spending time alone and indulging in yourself. It may be giving back. Sometimes, true joy comes from giving or receiving gifts—whether they are tangible tokens or simple acts of kindness—that express gratitude and appreciation. It may be apologizing to someone you hurt, it may be nature, it may be a move, or even an unexpected act of kindness from a stranger, whose generosity or support can bring profound happiness when you least expect it. It may be something I have not thought of but rest assured it is out there and all it takes is for you to reach it to find…love. This is how you catch love.

Self-care is so important

With all the outside complexities in life, I have learned to deal by using practical strategies. I have learned to nourish myself; so nourish yourself. I have learned in unpleasant situations to improve my attitude; so can you. I have learned how to be more effective and you will too. I have learned to relax though hard to do, and maintaining a sense of calm is essential for self-care and emotional balance. Engaging in writing, such as journaling or expressing gratitude through handwritten notes, is also a powerful self-care activity that helps process emotions and find love within. These are all loving approaches to practice on yourself so you can find love in your personal life. You deserve to love yourself. This is how you catch love.

Creative ways to show gratitude

Expressing gratitude is one of the most beautiful ways to acknowledge the goodness that surrounds us and the people who touch our lives. Sometimes, a simple “thank you” is enough, but there are so many creative ways to let someone know they are appreciated. Giving a thoughtful gift—something that truly reflects a person’s spirit or interests—can be greatly appreciated and shows that you see them for who they are. It doesn’t have to be grand; even a handwritten note, a favorite book, or a small token can make a world of difference.

When you express your deepest thanks, let it come from the heart. Sincerity is always felt, and it can make the recipient feel like a better person, valued and seen. You might also consider using your five senses to create a memorable moment: perhaps a homemade meal that delights the taste buds, a playlist of music that brings joy to the ears, or a walk together to enjoy the beauty of the world through sight and smell. These sensory experiences can deepen your connection and make your gratitude tangible.

Practicing gratitude doesn’t just uplift others—it also nourishes your own soul and even supports your immune system. When we focus on the blessings in our lives and take time to acknowledge the people who make a difference, we become more aware of the richness of our world. So, whether it’s through a thoughtful gift, a kind word, or a simple act of kindness, remember that expressing gratitude is a gift in itself—one that brings joy to both the giver and the receiver.

I’m so thankful for all the lessons, no matter how hard

I have been beyond blessed with my ultimate concierge. You have been blessed too with someone or some things. Thank God.

I wake up every morning thanking God for the wonder of the day. I start my day by giving thanks that I have my Shelly, I think about making lots and lots of sound choices and engaging myself in positive life-loving affirming goals. I get up walking on the sunny side of the street, even if I am thrown a curve ball because I am resilient, have the positive gene, and am filled with love. My motto is …simply be. Isn’t that a lovely phrase? This is how you find love.

The knowledge I gain from life’s lessons, especially those rooted in the Bible and scripture, deepens my gratitude and faith. I am inspired by Jesus and Christ, whose teachings and compassion guide me to be thankful even in difficult times. Gratitude shapes my future and gives me hope, reminding me that every day holds new possibilities and that faith can light the way forward.

I let love engulf me with a multitude of things every hour of the day in some way. I am smiling. This is truly a way to find love. Be loving!

What are you thankful for darling? Even when life is hard I’m sure you can find beauty in the lessons!