Relaxing Girlfriends Night In With Your Girlfriends Over 50: It’s Time to Relax, Darlings!

My darlings, I know that after a long week we often just want to relax. Who better to relax with than our favorite girlfriends?

I often find that after travel or a tumultuous week, a little time with my friends can make a world of difference. Girlfriends can provide solace when we are down, advice when we’re in our toughest spots or a consoling ear when we need someone to listen. Take the opportunity to dig deeper in your conversations—exploring thoughts and feelings together is a wonderful way to foster meaningful connections.

We are never too old for a night with our girlfriends. If you haven’t had a night in for a while, or you’re looking to make a network of friends, there are women waiting for you on my private Facebook group, Women Over 50: Celebrate Visibility! Don’t be afraid to reach out. We all need a group of girlfriends, no matter what our age is.

A relaxing night in can be the perfect girlfriends getaway at home—an opportunity to plan special activities, bond, and create memorable experiences together without ever leaving your living room.

Spending time with girlfriends, especially during a cozy evening, is the perfect way to unwind. Talking and sharing stories helps strengthen bonds and creates lasting memories.

However, darlings, if you’d rather have a night of self-care alone with your pup, that is fine too! Whatever you want to do, the world is your oyster and these ideas will be perfect for a relaxing night in, regardless of who is there with you.

Remember, you can make any of these things more elegant or casual, it’s very much up to you and your girlfriends, my sweet readers. Enjoy a cozy evening with your girlfriends, talking and connecting—it’s a simple pleasure that means so much.

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Easy and Delicious Snacks

After a long week, you may prefer ordering in, but if you’re like me, you always want to be the host with mostest! After a difficult week, you may want to cozy up with your girlfriends and watch a fun movie. What goes better with a film than popcorn, my darlings!

I came across a lovely idea for a popcorn bar in my search for fun popcorn ideas. I had never heard of it before and thought it was simple—something a lot of people don’t often see.

Popcorn Bar Recipes & Ideas

If any of your girlfriends have kids joining the night in, a popcorn bar is a fun, family-friendly snack option that everyone can enjoy together.

If you don’t like popcorn, my darlings, or if you’re looking for something more substantial, I have just the treat for you. I discovered these delectable looking hummus and avocado toasts with roasted tomatoes. They are a little more difficult than a popcorn bar but are oh so delicious. Find the recipe HERE.

To make the night extra special, don’t forget to end with a delicious dessert. Sharing homemade brownies or indulging in a big ice cream sundae together is a fun way to treat yourselves and enjoy the sweet side of your girls’ night in.

Wine & Cocktails for a Fun Night in With Friends Over 50

If you like a good drink from time to time, a great time to break out a nice bottle of red or a fun cocktail (like this ginger pear prosecco sparkler) is always with your girlfriends. Make your guests feel special by serving a signature drink just for them. Don’t worry if you’re not a big drinker, you can substitute the prosecco with club soda!

If you’d like a fun and fashionable cocktail, I do enjoy something simple. For a little sweet and some bubbles, try this . The ingredients are simple and the drinks are elegant.

Ingredients:

• 6 sugar cubes
• Angostura bitters
• 750-milliliter bottle of Prosecco, champagne or other sparkling wine
• 4 thinly-sliced strawberries

Preparation:

• Drop a sugar cube into each of 6 glasses and douse with a few dashes of bitters. Pour Prosecco over top. Garnish with the sliced strawberries.

After enjoying these drinks together, everyone will feel relaxed and at ease, making the evening even more enjoyable.

Here are a few selections of red Cabernets to enjoy as a nice glass of wine, darlings:

• Red Selection #3 from Bristol Farms
• Obsidian Ridge 2015
• Rolling Plains 2014 Reserve Cabernet Sauvignon

A girls’ night in is the perfect opportunity to catch up with friends over a glass of wine.

Face Mask Treatments for Women Over 50

A girlfriends’ night in would not be complete without a little pampering. Aren’t I right, darlings? A new trend in the last few years has been simple sheet masks. I see them all the time now, especially on Instagram. Instead of going to the spa, you can bring the spa to you by visiting your local drug store or ordering ahead on Amazon. The experience can feel just as indulgent as spending an afternoon at one of Carmel’s luxurious day spas, complete with relaxing amenities and a soothing atmosphere.

This mask HERE comes in a pack of 12 and is good for anti-aging and hydration. They are simple and trust me, you’ll have a good laugh with your girlfriends. They are a great conversation starter and a fun group photo opportunity! Time spent pampering with friends can be just as rejuvenating as a visit to a professional spa.

Shows & Movies to Enjoy Over 50

Lastly, the entertainment. Sometimes we talk all night during our girls nights. We’ve talked about our favorite movies and shows, sharing recommendations and laughing about memorable scenes together. However, when you’d like to watch something romantic, funny, dramatic or all three, there are many options out there.

A movie night is a fun way to relax and connect, and watching a classic Marilyn Monroe film can be a fun way to enjoy a nostalgic evening filled with vintage glamour.

I often get asked what there is on Netflix for women over 50. There is a lot of content for us, my darlings; we simply need to search for it. Netflix has been gearing more towards our age group in the last few years, which is nice. Not to mention, they also have an expansive selection of films from the past that I always enjoy including Annie Hall and The Graduate. Sometimes I choose shows or movies that feature places I’ve visited or would love to visit, making the experience even more engaging and inspiring for future adventures. Watching these films often sparks conversations about places we have explored or hope to explore together, adding excitement to our plans. If you’re looking for something new, I’ve included a few selections below, some of which are on Netflix.

• Grace and Frankie: They’re not friends, but when their husbands leave them for each other, proper Grace and eccentric Frankie begin to bond.
• Wine Country: When longtime friends meet up for a wine-soaked birthday getaway in Napa Valley, their perfectly planned weekend turns messier by the minute.
• The Crown: When Queen Elizabeth’s father passed away, she inherited the throne at only 26 years old. This bio-drama follows the life of the leader after her wedding and coronation. The serious show gives the details behind the royal family and also shows a darker side of the royal responsibilities.
• Call the Midwife: A BBC period drama series about a group of nurse-midwives working in the East End of London in the late 1950s and early 1960s.

Book Club Ideas for a Cozy Night In

There’s something truly special about gathering your friends for a cozy book club night, darlings. A book club is a fun girls night idea that goes beyond just reading—it’s about digging deeper into stories, sharing laughter, and exploring new perspectives together. To make your evening unforgettable, choose a book that sparks conversation and resonates with your group’s interests, whether it’s a juicy mystery, a sweeping romance, or a memoir that inspires.

Set the scene in a great location—perhaps your living room with plush seating, soft lighting, and a table filled with delicious food and a little wine tasting. For a fun twist, you could even plan a self-guided walking tour of literary landmarks in your town, or create an author-inspired setting right at home. As you discuss the book’s themes and characters, don’t forget to indulge in a decadent dessert to sweeten the evening.

Book club nights are a wonderful way to spend time with friends, foster creativity, and create unforgettable memories. Whether you’re exploring new genres or revisiting old favorites, the real joy comes from the conversations and connections you share. So gather your girls, pour a glass of wine, and let the stories—and the laughter—flow.

Cultural Experiences to Share With Friends

If you’re looking to add a touch of enrichment to your next girls trip, consider diving into the local culture together. Visiting antique stores, exploring museums, or attending a lively local festival can be a fun way to immerse yourselves in the town’s unique heritage. A shopping trip to charming boutiques or artisan markets is not only a great way to find one-of-a-kind treasures, but also a perfect excuse for a little retail therapy with your group of fun girls.

For those who crave a bit more adventure, outdoor activities like horseback riding or scenic hikes offer a fresh perspective on the area you’re visiting. And of course, no girls getaway is complete without a taste of affordable luxury—think day spas for a little pampering or a wine tasting afternoon to savor the region’s best flavors.

These cultural experiences are more than just activities; they’re opportunities to explore, laugh, and create lasting memories with your friends. Whether you’re shopping, sipping wine, or discovering hidden gems, you’ll return home with stories to tell and a deeper appreciation for each other’s interests.

Outdoor Adventures for the Spirited Group

For those spirited groups who love a little excitement, planning a girls weekend filled with outdoor adventures is the perfect way to bond and have fun. Imagine starting your day with a self-guided walking tour through a picturesque town, taking in stunning views and discovering hidden corners along the way. If your group is feeling energetic, try hiking, kayaking, or cycling—these activities are a fun way to explore nature and enjoy each other’s company.

Choose a destination known for its natural beauty, whether it’s a coastal town with ocean breezes or a mountain retreat with breathtaking vistas. Visiting during the shoulder season means you’ll enjoy a more relaxed atmosphere and fewer crowds, making your adventure even more special. With a little creativity in your planning, you can tailor the weekend to suit everyone’s interests, from leisurely walks to adrenaline-packed excursions.

Outdoor adventures are not just about the activity—they’re about making memories, sharing stories, and celebrating the joy of spending time with friends. So gather your girls, plan your next trip, and get ready for a weekend of laughter, exploration, and unforgettable moments.

Health and Wellness Tips for Women Over 50

A girls trip can be the perfect opportunity to focus on health and wellness, especially as we embrace life over 50. Prioritizing self-care doesn’t mean sacrificing fun—in fact, it can make your getaway even more rewarding. Consider planning activities like yoga sessions, guided meditation, or spa treatments to help everyone relax and recharge. Many destinations offer affordable luxury options, from wellness retreats to fitness classes designed specifically for women over 50.

Don’t forget the importance of nourishing your body with healthy, delicious food and staying active with gentle exercise. Use this time to have open conversations about topics like menopause, stress management, and self-care—sharing experiences and advice can be incredibly supportive and empowering.

By weaving wellness into your girls trip, you’ll return home feeling refreshed, revitalized, and more connected than ever. After all, the best trips are those that nurture both body and soul, leaving you and your friends ready for whatever life brings next.

Memories and Keepsakes: Cherishing Your Time Together

The true magic of any girls trip lies in the memories you create together, darlings. To make your time even more meaningful, consider crafting keepsakes that capture the spirit of your adventure. Create a photo album or scrapbook filled with snapshots from your self-guided walking tour, or design personalized jewelry as a reminder of your special bond.

Get creative with your friends—plan a painting or crafting session, or collect unique souvenirs from local markets and memorable landmarks you visit. These little treasures will serve as beautiful reminders of the laughter, stories, and moments you shared.

Above all, remember that the greatest keepsake is the time spent together. With a little planning and a lot of heart, your girls trip will be filled with stories to tell, memories to cherish, and friendships that grow stronger with every adventure.

Travel Tips for Effortless Getaways

Darlings, is there anything more delightful than planning a girls weekend or a fun girls night away with your favorite friends? Whether you’re dreaming of a quick escape or a full-blown girls trip, a little planning and a dash of creativity can turn any getaway into an unforgettable adventure.

Start by choosing a great location that offers a blend of outdoor adventures, delicious food, and plenty of opportunities for a little pampering. Look for a hotel or cozy inn within walking distance of the town center—this makes it so easy to explore charming antique stores, join a local book club event, or indulge in a spontaneous shopping trip. Exploring local shops and boutiques adds even more fun to your getaway, letting you discover unique finds and enjoy the best shopping experiences together. A perfect location means you’re never far from a fun night out, a relaxing day spa, or a short walk to stunning ocean views.

To foster creativity and make the most of your girls getaway, plan activities that everyone will love. Think self-guided walking tours through historic neighborhoods, horseback riding along scenic trails, or wine tasting at a local vineyard. These fun ways to spend time together are sure to create unforgettable memories and plenty of stories to share at dinner. And don’t forget to leave space in your itinerary for a little downtime—sometimes the best moments come from simply relaxing with your girlfriends, enjoying a glass of wine, and catching up on life.

When organizing your next girls trip, remember the whole point is to enjoy each other’s company and have fun. Talk with your group and decide on the best ideas for your getaway, whether that’s a movie night in your hotel suite, a shopping spree in a vibrant city, or a leisurely walk along the beach. Traveling during the shoulder season can offer more affordable luxury and fewer crowds, making your experience even more special.

A little creativity goes a long way—some hotels even offer unique extras like in-house book clubs or wine tasting rooms, perfect for a fun girls night in. And if you’re visiting New England or another picturesque region, be sure to explore the local food scene and take in those breathtaking ocean views.

Above all, darlings, don’t forget that the best part of any trip is spending time with your girlfriends. Whether you’re planning your next trip with one friend or a whole group, the memories you create together will last a lifetime. So relax, enjoy, and make every girls getaway a celebration of friendship, laughter, and a little bit of luxury.

Enjoy Your Time With Friends

No matter what you do, my darlings, make it a fun and joyous time! Consider having one person in your group take the lead in organizing the night’s activities to keep things smooth and enjoyable. Find a great spot in your home to set up for your relaxing night in—somewhere comfortable and inviting for everyone. Whatever that means for you, grab your girlfriends or your animal companion and enjoy a night in with good food and entertainment. You can’t go wrong.

Share with us! What are some of your favorite things to do during a relaxing night in? Join the conversation in the comments below.

Come find your supportive community of like-minded women! Join these private Facebook groups:

 Women over 50: Celebrate Visibility

Sisters in Widowhood: Life Transition

 Estranged Mothers and Grandmothers: Millions Strong